Well,we went to Hot Wheels Grand Finale in Ikano.As you know,Ryan memang minat kereta kan?Okay..So,habis event,we all nak balik.Dia menangis and meronta-ronta kat lantai,he whined even louder.So,kami ingat nak distract Ryan dengan susu.So angkat dia terus and bawa naik atas,Kluang Station.I asked him.
"Baby, you want milk?"
He indicated "yes".Then I walked towards the stroller and he followed me closely.As usual,I passed him the thermos cover,then poured the hot water in the milk bottle.Masa ni mata merah sebab teresak-esak-masih dalam 'nangis' mode.When I requested him to put the cover over the thermos,he backed up and refused.I wasted no time but to grab it from him,nicely lah.He started crying out loud and tangan tu tunjuk-tunjuk ke bawah(Hot Wheels event).I tried to pass him the bottle cover (standard routine) and let him put on the milk bottle. But he threw the cover on the floor.Damn jauh okay,sampai kena kaki orang.This made me more agitated.Huh!His daddy picked it up, screwed tight the milk bottle, walked back to his stroller.He continued crying and refused to get back to the stroller.Im started to cry(bukan nagis macam kanak2 lah,just mengalir air mata,muka telinga merah menahan sedih).With a low but stern voice,I commanded him.
"Come here baby Ryan.You want milk right?"
He still ignored me and hubby by continue crying.I get angry and off from his sight, ignoring him too.Order makan and minum while his daddy cuba memujuk his son!Then,I pergi pujuk dia lagi since marah dah redha and makanan pun dah sampai so daddy makan dulu.He then started to throw his temper by scratching on the stroller,throwing his cars and bottle,kicking my chest and pulling my shirt.I tried to carry him, give him milk but he pushed everything away.Sigh.He now cried his lungs out and asyik sebut CAR CAR CAR until he coughed. This lasted for about a few minutes.He rejected the milk. He still continued crying but softer,yet keep on whining.And now I had no choice,turun bawah balik pergi ke event tu and asked.
"Baby, you want milk?"
He indicated "yes".Then I walked towards the stroller and he followed me closely.As usual,I passed him the thermos cover,then poured the hot water in the milk bottle.Masa ni mata merah sebab teresak-esak-masih dalam 'nangis' mode.When I requested him to put the cover over the thermos,he backed up and refused.I wasted no time but to grab it from him,nicely lah.He started crying out loud and tangan tu tunjuk-tunjuk ke bawah(Hot Wheels event).I tried to pass him the bottle cover (standard routine) and let him put on the milk bottle. But he threw the cover on the floor.Damn jauh okay,sampai kena kaki orang.This made me more agitated.Huh!His daddy picked it up, screwed tight the milk bottle, walked back to his stroller.He continued crying and refused to get back to the stroller.Im started to cry(bukan nagis macam kanak2 lah,just mengalir air mata,muka telinga merah menahan sedih).With a low but stern voice,I commanded him.
"Come here baby Ryan.You want milk right?"
He still ignored me and hubby by continue crying.I get angry and off from his sight, ignoring him too.Order makan and minum while his daddy cuba memujuk his son!Then,I pergi pujuk dia lagi since marah dah redha and makanan pun dah sampai so daddy makan dulu.He then started to throw his temper by scratching on the stroller,throwing his cars and bottle,kicking my chest and pulling my shirt.I tried to carry him, give him milk but he pushed everything away.Sigh.He now cried his lungs out and asyik sebut CAR CAR CAR until he coughed. This lasted for about a few minutes.He rejected the milk. He still continued crying but softer,yet keep on whining.And now I had no choice,turun bawah balik pergi ke event tu and asked.
''Baby,please stop whining.We are already here and what do you want?''
He automatically smiled and tarik tangan I ke Hot Wheels booth.Okay,bought him 2 kotak Hot Wheels track and 8 cars yang dia konon-konon nak tu.Fine lah,dah habis merajuk.But then masa nak naik atas balik,dia ternampak mainan orang lain pulak,dia letak kotak-kotak tu tadi and rampas car budak tu!!Huh?Spent almost RM400 just for that fuckin cars and he grabbed a plastic car????How does it feel moms?This is too much!
Again,he cried and witnessed by 1 of my Facebook friend.She told me on Facebook tapi tak berani tegur.Sambung balik,Ryan lari and pulled that little boy(umur 4 tahun kot)and grabbed his car.Budak tu menangis.I mintak maaf to his parents and carried him off.Eye to eye contact,spoke to him firmly.Dia tundukkan muka but still tahan diri dari menangis.Kental betul,hati kering.Paling kuat pun teresak-esak bila eye to eye session!
So there you go,cerita tak habis okay.Malas.Even berlarutan sampai ke kereta and rumah ;).Damansara to Puchong.Wow!
Imagine, this is not the first day he behaved like this. It has been almost a year since baby.Do you think you can still maintain your "coolness" dealing with this demanding toddler?Plus,I ni bukan jenis tengking anak,pukul anak.Put the blame on me.
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Again,he cried and witnessed by 1 of my Facebook friend.She told me on Facebook tapi tak berani tegur.Sambung balik,Ryan lari and pulled that little boy(umur 4 tahun kot)and grabbed his car.Budak tu menangis.I mintak maaf to his parents and carried him off.Eye to eye contact,spoke to him firmly.Dia tundukkan muka but still tahan diri dari menangis.Kental betul,hati kering.Paling kuat pun teresak-esak bila eye to eye session!
So there you go,cerita tak habis okay.Malas.Even berlarutan sampai ke kereta and rumah ;).Damansara to Puchong.Wow!
Imagine, this is not the first day he behaved like this. It has been almost a year since baby.Do you think you can still maintain your "coolness" dealing with this demanding toddler?Plus,I ni bukan jenis tengking anak,pukul anak.Put the blame on me.
-PICTURE ABOVE:pening kepala mode-
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sis, i rasa u dah terlebih manjakan dia kut.
tu pasal dia berani nak tarik barang orang lain.
sis cuba lebih tegas dengan dia.
bukan bermaksud sampai kena pukul dia.
mungkin dengan cara psikologi.
haa tu lebih berkesan rasanya.
:)
**i bercakap macam berpengalaman jer padahal kawen pun belum . hihihi ;p
hoho.story ni sama ler mcm kes anak sy jugak....anak lelaki mmg cam ni kot perangainyer.. coz my son pun mcam ni..pening sgt melayan..tapi bila dapat anak perempuan (anak kedua sy) mmg sgt baik..hihi..
so, nak tak nak..layankan ajer perangai anak laki ni...mmg kena bnyk2 saborrrrr kan mummy ryan..kalau tak sabor..agaknya leh pengsan kita dibuatnyer..cepatlah diaorg membesar...senang sket..ekeke
sama situasi dengan sy jugak..
kadang2 rasa down sgt2
tapi nak bt camner..
anak kite kan..
just sabar je..
kena teach dia slow2..
by the same time teach kite supaya tahan sabar jugak..
dugaan ni jadi seorg ibu..
dear..my girl also behave like tis... :(
so headache ... kita mmg kena extra super sabar !!!
dear....u pon ati kering juge la...tersgt la kool...adoila..kalo i konpem..dah lebam me cubit...nak marah/tengking..cm malu lak kat tmpat public,..tp i rase u tersgt2 manjakan ryan...& selalu mengalah dgn dia...bab tuh dia nek kapla sket..=)..
apepon..stay cool dear..i mau blaja ngn u ...i sgt baran...sian my dadif...=)
haii mommy ryan. i'm ur silent reader. dah lama i follow blog ni. tp i x pnh comment :)
bila i baca tajuk utk entry ni je, i terus beminat nk baca, i nk tau mcm mana cara u handle ur baby.
i think, i setuju dgn drunbella. u kena lebih tegas dgn anak u. sbb utk kebaikkan dia jugak. bukan lah dgn cara naik tgn. tapi dgn cara psikologi mcm i tgk cerita matsaleh tu, diorg akan gunakan cara psikologi.
jarang nampak diorg pukul anak. cuma i pny pendapat di sini, u harus lebih tegas dengan anak u. macam mana caranya, itu terpulang pada u.
i pun belum kawin jugak. just nk bg pendapat :)
huuu..sabar dear..terer laa u boleh sabar..i ni, x tahu laa..Rafique meragam masa breastfeed pun i rasa cam nak cubit..hehehe..seb baik laa pikir kan sakit masa nak deliver, terus x jadik cubit, cium jer laa..hihihi
drunbella-tula..betul tu.
nurhamidah-really?ooo..tu la.
emmy-what to do....
mrs.bee-true
cik puan akish-heheh tu la,nak buat mcm mana...cm tu la kan..
nuruz-thanks babe
deena-heheheh saboooo
babe...i rasa ada kot reality show named 'Nanny 911'...kalo x salah la..it's british reality show bout how to handle toddler yg mcm2 ragam dalam family...it's good for parent...i sllau tgk program tu dulu..now i x sure still ada lg x kat tv..try google kat youtube... ;-)
salam stephanie.. i'm of ur millions silent reader.always drop by singgah bc ur new entry.. ac2ally ur case sama cam anak i which is now he is 3 and half and bakal ada adik nx year feb i"allah.. huhuh n previously i mmg pampered kan dia ngan toys.. every time p shopping mmg dia akan dpt toys..x kira mahal or murah. kdg2 sampai sehari 2-3 toys dia dapat. bukan i shj even hubby i pun sama gaks.. huhu but nowdays since dah masuk 3yers kita nak stop telling stop stop stop ngan toys susah la kan.. nangis kuat2 dkt mall perkraa biasa sampaikan terpaksa beli coz malu punya kes ka.. huhuh n active x payah cakap la.. jenis x tkt ngan manusia lain kat mall mian tegur je sapa2 ... but i solute ngan u coz x pernah cubit2 dia coz i ada gaks cubit2 x tahan kan. masuk mall jenis x reti jalan n x takut ngan strangers sampaika berlari2 naik escalator sorang2.. see that my son.. huhuh mcm tension ja kalau nak p sopping pun... but kena accept la kan.. mayb salah i coz manjakan dia dr kecik... huh :(
laady-thanks :)
naimah-:)
hai sis... nice ur pic...:p i really enjoy read ur blog...