Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


(Pictures taken from their blogs)
Just now lepas teman daddy lunch kat Hilton,I and Ryan went to Sunway for lunch at Tony Roma's with hot mommy Sue Harris(http://www.wonderbellyme.blogspot.com) and Hot mommy Lea Shmea(http://shegotcurves.blogspot.com) .Unfortunately the mommies tak bawa their babies,except for Ryan.Alone hero,but cukup memenatkan kami,as usual la Ryan memang active baby,takde geng pun boleh bercakap sorang2,jerit2,pukul baling barang,berdiri atas meja ;).

We had so much time together even sekejap coz mommy Lea dah nak sambung kerja.Mommy Lea sangat petite okay.Cute and hot.And mommy Sue memang hot mommy ok,with her slender body,xmacam 55kg yang dia cakap langsung(Dont worry too much babe,you are just nice-kalo you nak kurus dari badan you sekarang,you akan jadi skinny with nothing,not nice la babe coz you are already slim and slender)Huhu menangis la 'lalat' you tu jeles babe.I lain,voluptious,kalo gemuk,jadila mcm mak gajah coz badan i jenis fleshy plumpy on boobs and bumps).

Well,soon after mommy Lea balik, we all round turun naik Sunway nak shopping tapi xde yang berkenan langsung ;( .Then mommy Sue pun balik..tinggal I and Ryan round2 last2 ter-shopping kat Jaspal.Pastu lepak Starbucks .Ok,pictures ada kat mommy Sue.Hehehe.Nanti I upload.Hope to see you again hot moms!xoxo

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OMG!I CANT BELIEVE THIS!!IT HAPEN,AGAIN..IN MY LIFE!!
Just now,lepas balik dinner kat Sri Petaling Arabian restaurant I terserempak dengan bestfriend lama I,kawan sekolah.Nama dia Rina,dah kahwin anak 1,umur 2 tahun katanya.I was so happy!Happy to death.But then she was happy too dengan kelahiran Ryan.Kitarang pun lepak.


Suddenly dia keluarkan rokok,I jeling.Dia apikan rokok,I jeling.Dia hisap rokok,I jeling.Dia hembus rokok.....

RYAN TERBATUK.


I TUMBUK muka dia dua kali and tarik rambut dia,humban ke tanah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Then I maki dia,keadaan makin kecoh,pekerja panggil security.I dihalang,my hubby cant do anything(not fair nak halang me and that bitch coz he is a man),he just amik Ryan and gone.He knew that Im real good at this.I menjadi hantu,permaisuri segala hantu.Rina cedera ,muka lebam,hidung berdarah,rambut segulung masih kat tangan I.Then I thot it was ok,bila sampai parking,Rina cakap 'sorry'.I pandang belakang i tampar dia pulak and maki2 dia sampai polis datang(entah mana dtg polis).Pergi balai polis.Settled.

I cursed you the day you're born,bimbo mother fucker Rina!Daughter of a bitch!How come you berani merokok depan my precious???!!!I PUN MEROKOK BALIK,SINCE I BERHENTI BF MY SON.TAPI I TAK PERNAH MEROKOK DALAM RUMAH OR DEPAN MY SON,YOU MOTHER FUCKER WHORE!You got what I mean,moms??By tonite,I SUMPAH anak you Rina,anak you terencat/lembab/bodoh disebabkan rokok you!I told you to not messed with me,you cheapskate jalang!!!Ill kill you,if benda ni berlaku lagi!

When it comes to my son,my hubby ,family or anyone I laf,dont give a try.Dont,EVER.I wont act professionaly mcm I slalu buat when it comes to MY SON!!MY SON!!!HUGE NO NO,BITCHES.Ill do anything when it comes to MY SON!!!got it??As I said,NO!

+Sorry coz banyak mencarut,this post gonna be deleted soon.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
I have experience with OCD both personally and professionally. OCD stands for Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.Well,now I rasa dah kurang sikitla sejak ada Ryan.I have had OCD for a long time. Long before I had Ryan. As an adult, I have been generally able to manage my symptoms effectively, have a sense of humor about them, and not let my OCD interfere with my life too much.

Here,I nak share with you the facts about my OCD so that you akan kenal I better. ;p .Take it positively yeah?

1.Dalam handbag I mesti ada sanitizer and insect repellent



2.Kalau otak I dah set pakai outfit ape today,I mesti kena pakai jugak,mesti cari sampai jumpa.



3.Jenis tak suka cincai,really particular pasal kebersihan.Pantang cincai dalam semua etika



4.I kena bersihkan penutup tin air sebelum minum



5.Kena pergi basuh sudu garpu terlebih dahulu sebelum makan kat mana2 restoren



6.Kena cuci botol susu terus walau ada banyak lagi botol susu bersih



7.Tukar panties setiap 2 jam.I even bawa underwear,pantyliners and pencuci wanita bila keluar.



8.Kalau tak shopping setiap hari,hati I akan terseksa . :(



9.Very sweet and friendly person,tapi once you scratch my back,you takkan terlepas.I akan kerjakan you sampai hati I puas.Im real good at this,and dont mess with Stephanie Liah aka Mommy Ryan.



10.Kalau keluar,I mesti akan rasa-I dah kunci pintu ke?Dah tutup TV ke?gas dah tutup ke?LOL.



11.Bila I order makanan,kalau I cakap I xnak ikan bilis,tapi dia letak jugak,I akan order yang lain.I dont bother if you cakap 'alah letak je ikan bilis tu dari luar pinggan you'' :(



12.I pantang orang amik makanan dari pinggan I.



13.Pantang nampak kotoran.



14.Kalau I kunyah chewing gum sebelah 3 kali,sebelah lagi pun MESTI 3 kali ;p



15.Kalau I kata A,A lah.Nobody could change that.My son,perhaps?



16.I obssesed sampai I MESTI dapatkan benda apa yg I nak dalam hidup I



17.I dont pee on public toilet.I do,but not on their bowl,but on their floor!!!!Could you imagine that I hate germs on that public toilet bowl???????????Including any 5stars hotels or any high class malls.I peed on you floor,fool!HAHAHHA.



18.You tak boleh ubah apa yang I susun



19.Mandi at least 1 hour.



20.I dont lend people money or my outfits-sometime ada orang suka pinjam handbag I la,baju I la,kasut la ,makeup I ,my car ke or whatsoeva.



21.Tak suka tunjukkan kelemahan I pada sesiapa kecuali my family and hubby.Yes,I am secretive.




AND MANY MORE!

But since Ryan lahir,benda kat atas tu jela yang I masih tak dapat kikis...very the 'habitat' hahaha.But better la dari dulu kot.Kalau dulu,kalau I tengah makan tetiba you terpegang pinggan I,I wont eat my meals ok.Im rather taking new order.Then I lap sudu garpu dengan dettol before makan kat luar.Or,bertukar baju walau pergi shopping.Or,cuci tangan beribu kali dalam 24jam and ect.Banyak sangat nak list down.Better I stop before you irritated hahaha
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
This is what I normally do every month:Packed bahagikan masa with friends,family,house-core and my own reflection..

Meeting with family members-Checked
Clubbing with friends-Checked
Attending events-Checked
Gossiping with my BFF's-Checked
Gathering with wives and moms-Checked
Going to spa,salon,facial,manicure and shopping with my girlfriends-CheckedRyan's gymboree class-Checked

So when it comes to Saturday and Sunday-Its our 'three-some' quality time!!Such for this weekend,we played pool,finedining and midnight dating at the bar,went to the Zoo Negara and shopping again and again.Who says mom/wife cant enjoy her life after married/had kids?Dont trap yourself,enjoy your life to the fullest,anywhere,anytime with everybody!



















Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal






Actually picture Fatin and her twins ni outing kat Shook Bar,terlupa upload kat bawah tadi hehhe.so bercampur dengan photo Tree House Cafe.And dua photo kat atas sekali tu kat Michigan Bar and La Bodega hehhehe.Enjoy photo yang susunan secara random ni ek!






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Hot Moms in the house!!We went to Shook Bar Starhill with friends..specially the hot moms-Emma Razak and her Fiqah,Fatin and her twins,Ecar and her Eiymann also Jaja and her Zara!Not forgetting other moms too!Thanks for coming hot mommies!Ada banyak lagi photo2 kita di Shook Bar,nanti I upload k!




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Yesterday night,We went to Pavilion,had dinner at Michigan's Restaurant Bar and lepaking at La Bodega with Hot mommy Jaja,her husband and 2years old daughter named Zara.We mam2 raw oyster lemonade and crispy pizza.We had so much fun,the kids really enjoy the 'fake' snow and lari2 around the bar.

Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Bloggers Family Day 2010!!All of my followers are cordially invited!!
Organised by Ecar Ibu Eiymann(http://www.ecarnazrin.blogspot.com) and myself.


Date:3rd January 2010
Time:2pm
Meeting place:Sunway Lagoon main entrance
Ticket:Water Theme Park+Amusement Park
Feel free to join us yeah!If anything,YM me or ecar(mine:stephanieliah@yahoo.com.my).
Please let us know if you're coming.
Happy New Year!!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Merry Christmas to all!Thanks to Mummy Vish for the pictures!xoxo




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Limited edition!Haha.Ryan pakai MamyPoko but swim pants still pakai Huggies..Tapi bila nampak Huggies buat promo keluarkan Jeans Pants,so I rembat la satu.Hehehe.Nak pakai sampai habis,sayang..coz nanti dah takda dalam pasaran..Huhuhu.

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Comel tak salah seorang bakal menantu I?Hehehe.Macam picture wedding plak.LOL.K back to the story..

Fake Or Ori?Ha...

LOL.Memang la terkebil2 mata and ternganga mulut dapat RM500 for free dari Strangers!!!We went to Brewball that night,main pool.Tiba-tiba Ryan datang kat mommy bawa RM500!10 keping RM50.Could you imagine that?I & daddy was round round merry go round cari sape punya duit yang Ryan jumpa.Then ada sekumpulan 'Pak Arab' tepi meja poolkitarang senyum and bagitau,diarang bagi duit tu kat our son hanya kerana our son 'very handsome !'' katanya..Terasa macam ice perut i masa tu dapat RM500 dari STRANGERS'.Alhamdulilah rezeki,kami nak pulangkan banyak kali tapi diarang tak nak.So ape lagi,esoknya pergi bank untuk check sama ada duit tu ORI or Fake.Sah2,ORIGINAL!WOW,We are damn #$%^&* speechless..
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Last Sunday we went to Megakidz Gym Midvalley.Then after that dinner with mommy Julia and her 2years old son Edika kat Sunway and lepaking at Republic Bar.Thanks to Ecar Ibu Eiyman,Farah Dhelina,Hanz and Intan for coming.We had so much fun with kiddos running around.Specially Ryan memang takda kerja lain,membuli jekerja.Huhu sorry moms coz cara Ryan berkawan memang kasar.Ryan tiba2 rampas book and tolak2 abg Hambali,Ryan tendang kaki abg Eiyman sampai Eiyman nangis and taknak kawan dah ngan Ryan.Ryan pijak belakang abg Mirza ;( .Rampas car abg Edika sampai tarik2 rambut and terjerit2..Urm,kakak Arissa dah pernah kena,so bila nampak Ryan je Arissa lari2and panjat badan mama dia..Clever girl!LOL,Ryan ni belum berjumpa dengan his 'great fighter' dia lagi ni.Hehe.

Pasal orang gaji plak,I and Ecar ingatkan mak budak tu,rupanya orang gaji.Tersangatla suka main and jaga Ryan sampai anak majikan dia terabai.Huhuhu I and Ecar takut dia larikan Ryan je!!

And sorry for the goodies bag coz kids yang datang cuma 7org..
BTW,thanks mommy Intan for the photos!Love em all!










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We went to Brewball bar yesterday.Huhu,dah lama mommy tak main pool since preggy..Rasa kurang power skit heheh.Yang penting hubby I tetap bagi I menang in every games!Hehehehe.


Merry Christmas to all of my non-Muslim readers!!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Credited to the professional photographer Nizam Zailan.Million thanks to the judges and Mea's family specially Zara's granny.Its our luck!Mother&son.However the daddy still our hottest sweet darling.








Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Last Sunday we went to Sunway Lagoon with hot mommy Emma Razak and her 15months old daughter Shafieqah and hot mommy Fareen and her children.Photo dengan mommy Fareen tak banyak coz dia sibuk bermain dengan her children(anak2 dia dah besar).This is moms day out.No daddies.Next time kita gathering ramai2 yeah?Ryan and Fiqah had so much fun sampai tertidur .Hahaha.So its time for mommies gedix2 at the water theme park!Enjoy viewing!









Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Firstly:Million thanks to my evening dress sponsor,Jalpar International Label-RM26,000 for the Zara Iris Delisha Fairyland party.Huhu,more events for more expensive branded dress.Wanita mana yang tak nak dapat branded dress for free instead of buying ?

Secondly,thanks to Mea aka Myra(http://www.meazara.blogspot.com)for inviting us to their princess fabulous birthday party.This is very special coz this party is Ryan's first invitation-mommy daddy blind date with Zara's parents as well.The agenda:We reached 15minutes before the cake ceremony.We met Ryan's readers in person as well.Specially mommy Intan(http://www.babyintan.blogspot.com).Such an adorable little Arissa.Im so sorry mommy Intan coz Ryan pukul Arissa with the pistol balloon and nak cekik Arissa ;( .Maybe she is too cute to kiss heheheh.And little birthday girl Zara pun sempat bercakar2 dengan Ryan sekejap.Such a naughty kiddos.

Present:We bought Zara Hush Puppies flowery blouse.

The best part is our Ryan won the 'HOT PRINCE' tittle.Sorry for the rest over 150kids..U all tetap hot kiddos kat mata aunty.And not forgetting mommy also menang tittle 'HOT FAIRYTALE MOMMY' as well.Hehehe.Malam tu mommy jadi princess Pocahantas.Bila Mommy Zara pakaikan mommy sach tu,mommy teringat masa mommy memenangi crown Miss Malaysia Cultural Tourism and Miss Sarawak dulu..Thanks for the gifts,Mea and husband yeah!































Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

When my 13months old Ryan sees me hugging or kissing my husband, he either starts crying, throws a tantrum, or behavior meant to take us away from each other.OMG.


There once happened at our living room.He was sleepping then suddenly awake without our knowledge.He saw me and hubby doing foreplay 'karma sutra 69' on the couch(huhu HALAL moment UOLSS-And I memang set blog ni 18sx permission yeah)..Ryan then lari kat kitarang then pukul I sambil nangis terjerit2 .We stopped and had to pay some attention to him.I comfort dia,and tidurkan dia balik.Some how,we get things done.The sex part in marriage is really important even tergendala disebabkan anak.Laugh out loud.Funny and kinda odd.


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(Photo taken during the 5month of pregnancy)
I still cant believe that Im a mom to a 13months old toddler now..The journey is too fast and Im still counting...


1.Being newly pregnant and feeling like I have a "secret" from the world. These first few days of pregnancy when very few people know are often very fun and special. Many people share their news when they are ready in very creative ways.



2.Two words: multiple ORGASMS!I find sex in pregnancy is really great.One of a kind with big belly and the baby is kicking .Hahaha,fun eh?



3.Being able to take naps without an excuse in the middle of the day. This unfortunately is a benefit of the first pregnancy, because once you have a toddler running around there is no rest for the weary even hired a maid.



4.Having a big, round belly! Don't forget to take some great photos.We choose to take a picture every month wearing many style of fashion.



5.Hearing the glorious horse galloping heart beat! Around 12 weeks into the pregnancy your midwife or doctor will help you experience the joys of the first sounds of your baby's heart beat. Memorable aigt.



6.Playing games with the baby, like catch the foot, or kick the daddy. This is a great way to bond with baby before birth.



7.The baby moving and it is your little secret, no one else knows. You can do fetal kick counts to help you watch your baby's cycles.



8.The glow, even on the days you don't feel it. Okay you glow, but hopefully it's the good kind. The majority of women love being pregnant I think.



9.Free parking,free toilet,free ticket.Most of the time during my pregnancy,I always received free hamper and gift when I passed by any baby's stores(First Few Years,Mom's Care,Mother Care,Planette Enfant and ect).Free Free and always Free for me during my pregnancy!Hehehehe.Even once,free entrance to Sunway Lagoon.



10.Knowing that soon I'll have a little one to cuddle and nurse. Nine months seems like a very long time, but before you know it your baby will be here with you!




11.Attend a pre-natal yoga class.


12.Everybody loves me,cares for me.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Sometimes our children are out of our control.As for me,I suka cara 'swap'.Thats why our son quite spoilt!Sometimes kena la jugak 'soft spank' coz Ryan ni suka melawan.But most of the time,I lari masuk bilik and his daddy will handle Ryan.Then I will come back to him (upset+anger+mushi)


The idea behind parental discipline is to ultimately create self-discipline within your child. That means the kid has to learn something -- your value system and the difference between right and wrong -- that will guide him or her throughout life.So what do kids learn from being spanked?


The hitting itself doesn't teach them anything. Whether you believe in physical punishment or not, Dr. Phil has some disciplining tips and alternatives to spanking:


Don't take out your frustrations while spanking. Ask yourself if the spanking is truly warranted because of the child's behavior, or whether it's an excuse for you to have an adult temper tantrum? Are you more prone to spank when you are in a bad mood?


There needs to be a sense of calmness and order in the house. If you are spanking your kid for being physical and chaotic, aren't you adding to the physical chaos by being physical and violent with your child? What are you teaching them?
Make a commitment to your child's discipline. You have to do what you say you're going to do. Consequences should be highly predictable for your child.
Define your child's currency. What does he/she value? You can withdraw a positive (take away a favorite toy) or introduce a negative (giving a time-out) event -- but be consistent.
Develop a child-level logic. For example, kids know that you are less likely to discipline them in public, so that's where they'll act out.
When you have a confrontation with your kid -- don't ever lose! They will miss out on the opportunity to learn an important lesson if you cave in and let them get away with a behavior that is unacceptable.

Two things you should NEVER say to your child if you want him/her to behave are: "I'll give you something to cry about," and "Wait until your father gets home." Children can see through idle threats and will eventually ignore them. They will also take advantage of the fact that one parent doesn't want to deal with doling out the discipline and tries to hand it over to the other parent.
Negotiate a disciplinary plan with your spouse in calm waters. Calm parents make calm children.
Urm..How do you discipline your child when it comes to 'gaduh mom and child',moms?
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


Time really flies!


1.Copycat-Kuat tiru perbuatan.Kita buat itu ini semua akan tiru sambil ketawa.Kita petik jari,dia petik tanpa bunyi.Kita bunyikan lidah,dia ikut sama and ect.


2.Vocabulary-Instead of 'daddy,mommy,car,mam mam,nenen,he says few new words.By 12months he says ' No No No and Bye Bye Bye.And recently,he says 'bu yao' means NO in mandarin.


3.Curious pada everything surrounding him


4.Diapers maintain XL


5.He loves to watch digital reading flashcards and song rythms thru his Apple iPod touch rather than plasma,tablet PC,iphone or DVD portable.


6.Habit menjerit,head banging and baling barang then merengek kalau kita tegur NO .


7.Banyak akal-Suka buat banyak perkara dalam satu masa.Clumsy!


8.Susah sangat nak menangis.Ryan lebih rela buat tune teresak2 sambil mulut mencebik nak menangis,tapi tak menangis langsung.Tapi bila dia nak dapatkan sesuatu dia akan gunakan tangisan yang tak ada air mata sebagai weapon!


9.Berceloteh nonestop dengan his own language bila dengan stranger.


10.Mandarin and english spoken


11.Tidur dari kecil sampai sekarang masih dengan pattern mata terbuka,mulut terngaga


12.He like when it comes to 'brush your teeth' time.


13.8 teeths


14.He likes to hug/kiss mommy and daddy's lips from behind then run.


15.Loves to play hide and seek/peek-a-boo game.


16.Can drink from a normal glass
17.Pointing and mumbling here and there alot.
18.11.7kg
19.Jealousy


Last but not least,getting smarter such like other kids at his age!xoxo
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Month of Christmas!And owh yes,lotsa prezzie!We went to KLCC for the shopping spree.By the way,we met one of my best blogger friend mommy Intan(mommy Arissa Afrina: http://www.babyintan.blogspot.com/ )What a small world!She is so photogenic!Kat luar lain.Little Arissa so petite,just like her mommy and daddy.Well,bought Gucci shoes,Mont Blanc cufflinks,Ralph Lauren long sleeve,and Emporio Armani collar shirt for hubby!And for me Aldo heels,DKNY watch,Tiffany&Co ring and Chopard diamond pendant from my beloved man.And for our little man are Burberry shoes and Ralph Lauren shirt.








Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
We went out shopping at Pavillion for Princess Zara birthday present.We got it now,and cant wait to attend her fairyland 1st bash.

Well,its month of Christmas..So much fun when ure in multicultural yeah.As for us,we celebrates Raya,Chinese New Year and Christmas!We just cant wait for the coming Christmas!Lotsa deco and prezzie.Ho-ho-ho!










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We caught these pet instead of Princess Zara's present.Hehe.Ada discount so why not beli for the father and son..See,the smallest helicopter tu hanya RM150 only,and the biggest electrik helicopter is just for RM500(can fly up too 100metres and rechargable).Ryan likes the helicopter so much but he cant pronounce it yet,bila terbang,dia point sambil cakap 'car'.LOL.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Recently,Ryan likes to play with his birdie when he is naked.He laugh and walk while holding his 'Birdie'.Kinda odd for us..So,in the end,we find its actually normal for boys..


The term 'playing with his privates' can have many different meanings. Boys often walk around with their hands in their pants, even when they are adults. They are not necessarily 'playing' with their private. For young boys, it must seem like a strange attachment to their bodies. If they are playing, can you stop them? Should you stop them?

In simple terms, it is very difficult to stop a youngster from playing with his privates. From the time a baby can explore his body until well into old age, the hand of a male will naturally gravitate to that area. The reasons are many but the bottom line is, you will never stop the habit.
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Alhamdulilah,akhirnya Ryan dah balik ke berat ideal,its 10kg at 12months.Procedure bersama his paediatrician berjaya mengelak Ryan dari child obesiti(coz frame Ryan besar,so tak boleh banyak lemak)dari 16kg to 12kg and now propotional for his body,its 10kg+.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal



Formula Mom Club:Enfagrow A+ OR Pediasure Complete?


This is for mom who feed their kids with formula milk ya.I just wonder which formula are the best for 12months old toddler?Since I berhenti breastfeed Ryan at 10months,I pening pasal susu formula ni.From soy based to goat/cow milk.By the time I berhenti breastfeed Ryan,I bagi dia Enfalac A+.And now Ryan dah masuk 12months.So moms,which one is the best for toddler above 12month?(Breastfeeding moms,DONT fret!)Pediasure or Enfagrow A+?So far dua2 sesuai and Ryan ,takde problem Coz I bagi dua susu ni pada Ryan.But sampai bila nak bg dua tong berlainan kot kan..Well now,susu bukanlah main course Ryan,coz dia suka finger foods than liquid.Now,milk are just his secondary source.


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Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

As you know,Ryan is a cheese lover,dairy product and pasta.Remember that I told you before about Ryan's favourite Kraft Cheese Stick?Ok,recently we went out shopping and I came across these new product of Kraft.We bought 2 Spiderman,1 Scooby Doo and 1 Pokemon.LOL.Spoilt for choice duhh..Mommy is over the little boss now.


Macaroni & cheese made with 50% whole grain in the shape of popular cartoon characters from Scooby Doo to Spiderman, Square Pants Sponge Bob, Pokemon and much more.Each box cost RM6.90.I should just buy them for the shapes and throw away their cheese sauce and make our own.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Training Pants
Similiar to Cloth Diaper.Training pants help motivate your child.Potty training pants are a fun and secure way to help your child take the next step to potty training. They are NOT diapers; they are designed to aid in the potty training process. Training pants are great for containing leaks, but don't mask the wetness. This will help motivate your child to become potty trained.And of course,you have to buy a potty as well.

These training pants are NOT diapers, they are designed for child who are ready to start heading for the potty, such as the ability to:
follow simple instructions
understand words about the toileting process
control the muscles responsible for elimination
express a need to go verbally
keep a diaper dry for 2 hours or more
get to the potty, sit on it, and then get off the potty
pull down diapers, disposable training pants, or underpants



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Most every parent joyfully looks forward to the time when they can potty train their boy. For many parents, potty training their son marks his transition from babyhood to boyhood. But as for me,potty training a 12months old toddler boy at a very young age can be a bit of a challenge. Frequent accidents, messy clean ups and bad aim too often result in lots of frustration and little progress.Urm..Let me share with you what Ive got here.And moms,could you share with me how do you potty train your little man?


Toilet training is accomplished when a child uses a potty chair or toilet for bladder and bowel functions during waking hours. Nighttime bladder control usually occurs later because it requires the ability to suppress the urge to void during sleep or the advanced skill of awakening from sleep to the signal of a full bladder. Even at 6 years of age, 10% of children still wet their bed!



What is the best time to start toilet training?


When your child meets the following 3 criteria, you may start thinking of toilet train:


- When your child started to walk steadily (able to walk to potty, get on and pull down pants)


- When your child understand and response to simple instruction (understand what potty and toilet are for and is interested in using them etc.)


- When the parent can sometimes recognize or predict when the child has a full bladder or rectum

What are some basic principles behind good toilet training?


Be patient AT ALL TIME.
-Encourage all efforts – whether or not they're successful. For example, if he “makes” on the potty, you can say "Great job, you did it!" and if he wets his pants as he's running to the bathroom, you can say, "Great try. You almost made it. You can try again next time."
-Make diaper changes pleasant for him so he will come to you.
-Change him often so he will prefer a dry diaper
-Deal with potty training matter-of-factly, using simple and straightforward words for bowel movements (like BM, poop, or stool), urine (like pee) Do not use negative words like “stinky” or “dirty” to talk about poop. After all, the poop came out of your child's body, and they made it
-Teach what the toilet and potty chair are for ("the pee or poop goes in this special place"). -Demonstrate by dumping poop from diapers into the toilet.
-Have your child observe toilet-trained children use the toilet or potty chair (an older toilet-trained sibling can be very helpful).
-Give your child a potty chair. Help your child develop a sense of ownership ("my chair").
Never pressure or force your child.
-Teach him to come to you whenever he is wet or soiled.
Praise your child for every step in the right direction and keep your attitude positive.
-Keeping a positive tone and using lots of praise will work much better than punishing, criticizing or shaming your child.


Note:
Wait until age two to potty train your little guy. Before age two they continue to have accidents, no matter how fast they rush to the bathroom, which is surprising since little boys are usually so quick. By age two boys seem to be able to make it to the bathroom when they sense an urgency, and they can communicate better with their parents. Of course, there are exceptions, but why put yourself through the frustration of backtracking and repeat accidents, when TWO seems to be the best number?


Taboo in toilet training:
Treat accidents matter-of-factly, without shame or punishment. DO NOT punish the child if he cannot control the bladder or bower. It always makes the child uncooperative and also hurts the child's self esteem. Spanking, threatening to punish, or scolding the child for accidents is always counterproductive.



GOOD LUCK FOR RYAN ON POTTY TRAINING.Im tired of my precious shit.LOL.Well you know la,if possible pakai potty bila dirumah.Keluar,lain cerita.We just nak dia jadi 'Mr.Independent'.But Im not sure whether Ryan is ready for potty train bila nampak dia setiap kali poo-poo,dia akan menyorok dibelakang curtain then keluar bawa 'present'.Urm..
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Our 12 months old Ryan bangs his head on the floor, wall, me and his daddy or anyone, chair, toy, you name it and he will bang his head on it when he is mad or he wants something.Biting and throwing things are common for him.He even cried out loud if we try to avoid him from beating other kid!Recently,we went out shopping with my BFF blogger Bonda Chem Elle (http://www.bondachem.blogspot.com) was shocked when Ryan shows his castration temper tantrum-Ryan lari then pergi terkam then gigit 2 years old kid and bila I pergi ambik dia then dia menangis out loud sambil hentak kepala on the floor just because I halang dia dari terus menerkam that kid sambil berpaut taknak lepas pada mommy that kid tho!(getting worst)!Ryan mula berperangai macam ni since 6months..Im tired of it,moms.

I find this article is quit intresting.I would like to share this particular info with other 'head banging' kiddos.

-Head banging is usually a way for a child to comfort himself. As many as two in ten healthy children are head-bangers at some time between the ages of 6 months and 4 years of age. Boys are more likely to be head-bangers than girls. Some children head-bang when they are teething or have a painful ear infection. Some children bang their heads out of frustration or anger, as part of a temper tantrum. It can be a way to get attention from parents or other adults.


-Most children will outgrow the habit on their own. Since the rhythmic movement is comforting to the child, it may help to find other rhythmic activities for your child. This might include dancing, marching, clapping to music, beating on toy drums, riding a rocking horse, or playing on a seesaw or a swing. It also helps if you stay calm and don't make a big deal about head banging, especially if it is part of a temper tantrum.


-It is very unlikely that children under the age of 3 will seriously injure themselves with this habit. While it looks and sounds bad, toddlers cannot bang hard enough to fracture the skull or cause brain damage. Some ideas to help protect your child include placing a thick rug or rubber pad on the floor, padding the wall or crib, or having the child wear a protective helmet.

If you have any concerns, or notice other symptoms such as not looking at you or being slow to respond, talk with your child's healthcare provider.
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Well,on closer inspection,rupanya his 8th tooth(left lower lateral incisor) are cutting together with his 7th tooth(right) actually.But its only sharpy broke out on the next day.As usual,NO cranky,NO fever,Alhamdulilah.Urm,look at his set of teeth nice right,hehehe.His upper lateral incisor macam 'kapak'.LOL.He started teething as early as 6months and got 8 set of teeths by 12months.
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It’s a real shock for young parents when their first child becomes a toddler. They wonder how their sweet baby turned into such a whirlwind of activity, and such a bossy creature. In fact, when a baby becomes a toddler, it’s not uncommon for a new mom to comment, “I’ve lost my baby!” To get through this stage, parents need to be aware of two facts about toddlers – one about their general nature and another about temperamental differences among children.When parents understand these two basic facts, they’re less likely to feel there’s something “wrong” with their toddler or their parenting.
The Nature of Toddlers
Toddlers are cute and fun, but they’re also exhausting. At the toddler stage, children don’t concentrate. They’re very distractible. They don’t sit still very often, and they can be loud. They’re not reasonable, so trying to persuade them of anything often meets with limited success.



With all their demands, mischief, energy and temper tantrums, you always know when a toddler is in the house. And, of course, stubbornness dominates during the toddler stage. “No!” is the toddler’s favorite word; “I don’t want to,” a favorite phrase.Toddlers and TemperamentAlthough we can describe how toddlers behave in general, parents need to understand that different toddlers have different temperaments. There are basically four different temperaments, which Kenneth Condrell listed below:


1. The slow-to-adapt toddler: A toddler with this temperament craves routine and the status quo. These children find change disturbing, so parents are wise to give advance notice when a change is about to occur. “As soon as the timer goes off it will be time for your bath,” you might tell this child. Here are a couple of other suggestions for ways to talk to the slow-to-adapt toddler:“You can go on the swing one more time.”“After dinner we will visit Grandma.”


2. The very active toddler: These children makes the average toddler look he’s moving in slow motion. They find it hard to sit still. They resist confinement and lose control easily.Parents can manage a very active toddler in a number of ways, including scheduling a lot of outdoor play to burn off energy, and avoiding outings where he’s required to sit for extended periods, such as at restaurants, church and movie theaters. Finally, it’s important to gently remind this child when he starts to get out of control: “You’re getting too wild. Calm down.”


3. The high-intensity toddler: You can’t miss the high intensity toddler. He’s loud and extroverted. One way parents can manage his is by gradually teaching him the difference between an indoor voice and an outdoor voice, and reminding him to use his indoor voice when he becomes loud.



4. The sensitive toddler: Many toddlers are finicky, but the sensitive toddler seems finicky about everything. Some common complaints from the sensitive toddler are that his clothes are too itchy, his coats are too warm, his shoes are too tight, the ice cream is too soft and the super market is too noisy.



Parents can manage the sensitive toddler by:
Being patient. Remember that the irritations the sensitive child complains about aren’t imagined or overstated.Accommodating the child within reason. Buy clothes that are not scratchy, for example. Cut out clothing labels that might bother him and invest in shoes that close with Velcro instead of shoelaces .



Although toddlers can really challenge new parents, when you understand your child’s temperament, you can better anticipate problems and react in a calm, cool manner.Then, before you know it, your child will be a preschooler!How time flies,moms!!
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Good news is -
NASIB BAIK RYAN RAFFAEL TU MY SON.You tell me.Spank him?Pinch him?

Bad news is-
Ryan jahanamkan my BlackBerry dulu(termasuk pool then ditambah dengan sliver Ryan),and now jahanamkan my Nokia E90 dari tingkat atas.Screen pecah,patah,hancur.Gigit sampai air liur penuh masuk speaker..

Now,mommy dapat 3 presents from daddy.. Apple I-phone 3G 16GB,Mini Apple I-phone 8GB and Apple I-pod 16GB sebagai ganti.Hehe.Thanks darling.Dear my little man,janganlah jahanamkan gadget2 mommy dibawah ini ye..





















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-Backdated Post-


Ryan's right lower lateral incisor is finally broke out.Alhamdulilah as usual,NO cranky,NO fever.Oh my,his 7th tooth are totally damn crooked!Nasib baik la another 6 teeths tak crooked macam tu.LOL. So now Ryan got 4 upper front teeths,and 3 lower front teeths.But he is cutting his 8th tooth already.He is quit slow teether actually coz normally by 12months,they could have set of 9-11 teeths.
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Kalau dulu by 8months Ryan says mommy,daddy,car,nenen,mamam and ect and signed bye-bye ,clap,flying kiss and high 5..But now he says 'No No No' with NO fingers sign and his cutest voice,also says 'Bye Bye Bye' to everyone.Good job son.
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Thanks alot to Bonda Chem and husband for inviting us.Nah,our prince won the 'best dressed baby' on the party!Thanks yeah!













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3 DAYS UOLLS.Yes,its THREE days.Hey-No No No.JANGAN ada sapa2 cuba nak mempersoalkan betapa singkatnya mini confinement miscarriage I kalau ada yang memiliki ciri2 perut macam pelampung,overweight/underweight mcm landasan kapal terbang,ageing sedangkan below 30s,stretchmarks berlambak and tak mampu nak puaskan nafsu suami sebulan almost everyday ya!Bare in your mind. UOLLS yang actually kurang cukup pantang yah.Kalau yang 3bulan tu,extend la ke 6bulan tau.Pantang childbirth I ialah 45days tradisional and 2months pantang modern termasuk jahit virginity means total 3months and 3 days for mini confinement miscarriage for 7weeks.Singkat tapi padat.So please advice pada orang yang memiliki ciri2 diatas yeah.Hubby I dapat sedap and korang plak terhegeh nak cuba nak mempersoal betapa singkatnya mini confinement orang lain.Lain bangsa lain pantangnya.Lain budaya lain caranya.Listen and respect and cermin diri dulu yeah.So far belum ade lagi,tapi ini cuma amaran yeah.Blog I bukannya disscussion board.THANKS.
The Incident:

Genting 7th and 8th November 2009

8th Nov:Ride 185feet spaceshoot with 67km/hour-For 5 times,nonestop

Miscarriage on 10th Nov

10th Nov:Met Gynae and D&C.Admitted half day.

Memandangkan my embrio baru 7weeks,Doctor suggest I untuk berpantang 3 hari sahaja memandangkan condition rahim I normal and sihat.In fact I dibenarkan conceived again anytime by next year if we want to larh.So after a few considerations from my family and in laws,I decided untuk berpantang 3hari.I rest my case but berpantang makanan I sebulan tak minum ice/seafoods.


Mini Confinement for early miscarriage below 8weeks:

Day 1-Naikkan peranakkan secara tradisional

Day 2-Mandi herba&Mandi bunga

Day 3-Urut seluruh badan and light tungku secara tradisional&moden without barut (And of course jaga pemakanan just that not that tough as major childbirth confinement(mine was 3months),drink herbs
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I had a miscarriage...Its 7weeks old.Silly mommy,pity baby enough said..We went to Genting and i played spaceshot for 5 times..Ingatkan ealy stages so selamatla main..Taksub dengan dunia,lupa yang first tri-mester adalah the most crucial time..Put the blame on me..Im so sorry baby..
-I baru nak breasfeed Ryan balik coz my breast milk dah keluar masa week ke 4..
-Sepanjang carry 2nd baby ni macam biasa I mengidam ketam,Ice cream Baskin Robbins,durian..
Btw,this lil embrio wasnt mine..its just a sample photo..credited to Google.com.







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When you discover you’re pregnant you probably have no idea just how much your life is going to change. It all starts with morning sickness, food cravings, and food aversions. Add in the extra weight, your hormones going crazy, and feeling like a beached whale. Before you know it, the little bundle of joy has arrived and you’ve fallen head over heals in love with someone brand spanking new to the world.


*There are so many ways your life will change, especially with your first child. Before there was just you and your partner; now there’s another little person to be concerned about. Gone are the days of being footloose and fancy free, but you won’t mind when you look into that little face.


*One of the major changes that happen with a new baby is the fact that uninterrupted sleep becomes a memory of the past. Newborns are notorious for not sleeping all night long from the start, so expect that you’ll lose quite a bit of sleep. If you plan to breastfeed, your partner won’t be able to help with feeding unless you decide to use a breast pump.


*Don’t expect to be able to eat a hot meal again for a while, either. Even if you think you have your little one in bed asleep, they seem to know when you’ve had your second bite of dinner. Before you know it, you have to get up and tend to them. When you get back to eat, your dinner will be cold. You’ll find that the microwave can truly become a valued member of your family.

*Fathers can expect to take the back seat to the baby. They may feel frustrated about having to share with the baby since new moms are super focused on the baby and the baby’s needs. This is a normal reaction. Before too long she’ll have more time to focus on you and your relationship.


*Take the time to share and bond with the baby, and you’ll see why he’s so enamored.


*A couple’s sex life will probably also take a turn for the worse after the baby arrives. Doctors recommend that couples abstain from sex for at least the first six weeks. After that, even though it may be doctor-approved, new moms may be too tired. Be patient with her, Dad. This sexual dry spell will also pass with time.

*Going out will be a whole new experience as well. Expect to change the baby at least twice before you actually make it out the door. Keep your baby’s diaper bag with everything babies need, stocked with a change of clothes, plenty of diapers, wipes, and anything else you usually have in there. Try to leave an hour before you need to so you’ll actually leave about on time.


*Traveling anywhere will never be the same. Packing for you and your partner will seem the same, but you’ll be surprised how much you’ll have to pack for such a little person. Car seat, playpen, toys, and their clothes are often needed. You may think of other items you’ll need, as well.*Fathers can expect to take the back seat to the baby. They may feel frustrated about having to share with the baby since new moms are super focused on the baby and the baby’s needs. This is a normal reaction. Before too long she’ll have more time to focus on you and your relationship.


*Changes are a given when a new baby enters your life. You are new parents with a new baby; be prepared for your new life. Of course, you’ll see that all of these changes are for the better when you remember how much this little life has added to yours.


Welcome to your toddlerhood Ryan.How time flies,you are 1 YEAR OLD now!We love you so much,Ryan Raffael.We will do whatever makes you happy!We will protect you!And now,mommy is carrying your little brother/sister!!!We are soooooo HAPPY!!


The Incident:
Sepatutnya period I anytime by 26th-30th.But then delayed dekat a week.Before that I mula alah dengan bau rokok,perfume,oily foods.I had a morning sickness,frequently,yet my bladder were always full!Then I mimpi I tengah pregnant,baby tumbuk sampai terkeluar dari perut(wavy tumbuk2 but boleh kira bilangan jari-hehehe)Then I bagitau hubby,he bought a pregnancy test kit.So...I was surprised!!Happy and bersyukur tak terhingga.We all dapat 2nd baby on Ryan's birthday!By next week pergi scan.Now dalam 5 weeks I guess.Patutlah I mengidam ketam&durian..Nanti I akan link kan sub-blog under Ryan's blog about my 2nd pregnancy journey.By the way,my pregnancy memang dirancang.Cuma tak sangka seawal gap-setahun.Thot of gap-2 years.Hehehe.Rezeki.Yoga class---are you ready!Ada sapa2 preggy moms yang join pre-natal yoga?Im going and see you there!
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Yesterday we went to UMMC for the MMR jab.. He would want you to know again dear reader, as usual that he didn't cry.And again,Alhamdulilah,NO fever.And next booster would be on Nov 2010 next year.Memandangkan ni adalah injection terbesar,we all expect Ryan akan demam or menangis for the first time.But we're totally wrong ;p
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Here are some of his birthday presents and the goodies bag for the children who came to Ryan's party on 1st Nov 2009!
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*Half of the photos*
Venue:Main Hall Perdana Exclusive Condo,Damansara Perdana
Theme:Enviroment of Little Pirate
Dress code:Black
Professsional photographer:Wan Ah Fong
Entertainer Of The Day:A CLOWN(1 hour and a half) and a MAGICIAN(1 hour show)
Crowd:180 guest
Present received:26 boxes
Cash received:RM2100(huhu setengah RM dari party tu Ryan sponsor.LOL)
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A very good news for moms who cant breastfeed their child since newborn!(And yes,be clear -breast milk is the best,stop fight over this)As for Ryan,he breastfed til 10months and now he took Enfagrow A+ and nubian GOAT's milk as an alternative to breast milk.Its pretty cheap,RM5.90 for 200ml.You can find Nubian's product at any Cold Storage and Giant Store.Suitable for babies from 0-above.
Goat's milk are better than cow's milk as it wont cause any allergies and its proven closer to breast milk,you all.


To discover the benefit of goat's milk,please visit http://www.nubiangoatsmilk.com/
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30th October 2009!!

The private party is on 1st Nov 2009
Theme:Enviroment of Little Pirate for pre-birthday party
Dress code:Black(Mommy sponsored by Intent International)



Theme:Pirate
Venue:Main Hall Condo DP
Entertainer Of The Day:A CLOWN(1 hour and a half) and a MAGICIAN(1 hour show)
Biggest Present:Travel to Europe/United Kingdom on December for winter
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SHARING INFO:WWW.NURRABECCA.BLOGSPOT.COM IS A SCAM!

Happy 1st Birthday to Baby Fiqa!Thanks alot to hot mama Emma Razak for the invitation,yeah!We had so much fun.




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Instead of physical appearance beauty,I do really concerned about inner beauty and hygiene.Either brain or health.Im totally particular about internal and external beauties.Frankly speaking,I am nobody if I aint being perfectionist on these.I could do anything and everything about it.You named it.



-Breastfeeding as long as I can to shrinks my cervix naturally

-I went to oversea to rebuild my virginity after delivery a baby

-Taking herbs and supplements in appropriate amount for blood circulations,energy and obviously to maintain my Madam V 'tight,clean and puffy'

-And of course,spa is my mind theraphy

-And yes exactly,yearly medical checkups,pap smear and mammography basis if you're 40s.


Ok,I bet you as a woman of course you're doing the same thing as I did.dont you?By the ways,1 question,did you realise that you can get something really special for your Madam V?Nah,its all about sanitary pads&panty liners that Im using until now.Its one of a kind,perfect for woman's health,a lil bit pricey but affordable for everyone.


Here are the reviews about ordinary sanitary pads,cloth sanitary napkins(green woman) and Anion sanitary pads(pronounced as An-Ion)Its not an ordinary pad but to enhance health!You search on Youtube under ''Winalite Anion'' about 6months old baby whos finally fully recovered from major skin disease just because of the Anion pad(the green chip on pad itself)


Ordinary Sanitary Pad

-Easily Wet

-Leakage

-The contents are from recycled paper

-Causes of infections even wearing less than 2 hours

-The packaging are exposes to the air

-Not really breathable materials-just so-so.

-Un-strelised

-Stain-glue left on underwear


Cloth napkins

-Re-wash

-Breathable surface

-Not really suitable for nowdays lifestyle specially traveling

-Cotton

-Thick


Anion Sanitary Pads

-7 unique layer of protection

-Soft cotton surface,double absorbency

-Exclusive patented ''Anionic Padding''-Theres a chip on the pad

-Sterilised and dirt-free packaging-Made from alluminium foil

-Breathable 100% cotton base that allows free-following of air

-Easy to peel off,folded-lines adhesive design

-Eco-friendly and Bio-degradable

-Has a production and expiry date

-The big package is also resealable with food grade foil. You can open it, take a pad out, seal the packageback air tight, and it will look like new.

-Poly gel is made from corn extract,Anion strip is made from algae plant and It uses food base glue

-Pantyliner can be used in your shoes to relieve pain not only from feet, but knees & lower back.Not like any other pad,its suitable for men as well.

-Anion's contain an anion strip(chip) which can release high density anions which eliminate bacteria and kills V odor,Its chemically oxidize, decompose and neutralize the source of odor to remove offensive V odor and keep you comfortable

-HALAL Certificate (Malaysia and Asia Region)

-Product liability Insurance(RM1,000,000.00)-For Malaysia and Singapore only

-Product safety evaluation



Before that,Did you know...

1.The chances of matured women to be affected by vaginal(V) are high as 83%.

2.The use of poor quality sanitary napkins caused 62% of the women to be infected.

3.On the average,a woman needs about 3 to 6 days of a month for the treatment of vaginal infections.

4.If a woman begins to suffer from vaginal infections at the age of 20,she will spend at least an estimated 6 years of her life on medical treatments.


The benefit of Anion Pads

Anion in air is like vitamin in food, greatly benefits people's health and everyday routine, therefore, it is also being referred to as vitamin in air, which can facilitate body growth and disease prevention, the benefits are different to different organs


To respiratory system: improves lung function. 30 minutes after anion intake, the lung is able to inhale 20% more oxygen and exhale 14.5% more carbon dioxide.


To cardiovascular system: significantly reduces blood pressure, improves cardiac muscle function and nutrition, facilitates the dilation of capillary vessel and the rise of skin temperature.


To nerve system: energizes whole body, improves sleep quality, eases pain and tension.To metabolism: activates different enzymes in body, reduces blood sugar level, cholesterol, increases blood calcium, urine amount, increases the amount of nitrogen and creatinine in urine, accelerates bone growth, prevents scurvy, rachitis, vitamin insufficiency.


To blood: increases the number of white and red blood cell, hemoglobin, reticulocyte, blood platelet, globin, heightens PH reading, shortens blood forming time.


To immune system: improves reflex system and endothelial system, enhances body's anti-disease ability.


The Advantage


-Comfort Level:Compare to traditional chemical fiber surface or rough cotton surface, "love moon" sanitary napkin's surface is made from cotton that are softer, thinner and more comfy.Air PermeabilityThe base of "love moon" anion sanitary napkin is permeable to air but not to water, the hygienic level is greatly enhanced as a result, compare to the traditional air and water impermeable plastic base, "love moon" leaves no room for bacteria multiplication and gynecological diseases.


-Water Absorbing Ability:The surface of "love moon" anion sanitary napkin can absorb twice as much as the amount of fluid traditional sanitary napkin can. Sufficient crystal-like particles could hold the penetrated water in, instead of let them side leak or back flow.


-Health Protection"Love moon"anion sanitary napkin has an anion piece inside the cotton setting, which emits high density of anion when used. During the process of anion neutralization, the released oxygen could suppress the major source that causes gynecological diseases. The generation of anaerobe decreases the odds of gynecological diseases and the whole process is chemical free. An average female's vaginal PH reading is 4.0 to 5.5. Vaginalitis test card enables user's self detection. User's vaginal discharge would be measured by the card and the color of the card indicates user's vaginal state. By comparing the color to a given instruction, user could know whether she has vaginalitis and how serious.
The whole process is within 5 minutes. Vaginalitis card is attached to the main set. It is a constant detector of the health state to women's private sector which facilitates the diseases prevention, discovery and early treatment.
Packing:the packing of "love moon"anion sanitary napkin adopts the material of aluminum foil. It meets the food hygiene standard. The reusable, easy-pull seal is more likely to be dampproof, mildewproof and fungusproof than the other materials. Every piece of napkin is machine packed and sealed in the production line. The hand free process avoids the secondary pollution, guarantees safety and sanitation.


2.Padding:The traditional padding of sanitary napkin is made from paper pulp, which is the outcome of processing recycled substances. During the process, a huge amount of caustic soda, bleaching powder, deodorizer, fluorescer, chemical substances are introduced, which generate large quantity of lead, bacteria and germs. These chemical alkaline would damage skin's acid and alkali balance, and further leads to the propagation of bacteria and infusorian. "love moon" anion sanitary napkin on the other hand, is made form water absorbing particles, fully wrapped by strictly sterilized, dust-free paper. It firmly meets the national hygiene standard.


3.Base Glue:Traditional sanitary napkin's bases are mostly glued with industrial glue. The reliable glutinosity could not compensate the residual benzene left inside underwear. After the sanitary napkin taken off, this residue would get to user's sensitive area, cause diseases and damage health consequently. The glue used on"love moon"anion sanitary napkin is non-toxic and edible glue.


Are you intrested?My distributer named Puan Azlina Hamzah can show you the demo as well.They can show you how impressive it works.


WHAT’S IN 1 BOX OF ANION SANITARY NAPKINS:RM 268.00 = 19 PKTS PER BOX 10 X DAY USE (10 PIECE PER PACK) = 100 PIECE 4 X NIGHT USE (8 PIECE PER PACK) = 32 PIECE5 X PANTY LINER (30 PIECE PER PACK) = 150 PIECE


1.Anion Day Pad(10 pads) RM15

2.Anion Overnight Pad(8 pads) RM15

3.Panty-liners(30 pads) RM18


FREE-Self Test Card
OK,thanks for your time ;)
If you're intrested,then call this number-0162666673,kak lin/azlina.She can send the product into your door step and do the demo,if you want to ;p
visit her blog kiosk at http://www.doublecouture.blogspot.com
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Males aren't allowed to wear gold in Islam but this is when they are matured. However, for a baby whatever wrong things the parents train them to do the parents will get the sin and not these innocent babies. So as for me,play it safe and give him a beautiful silver ring,silver pendant,jade with precious gems and diamonds inlaid.
As for Ryan,we bought him brown jade and silver bracelets..Im looking for naming pendant,would prefer white gold tho.But Im not sure about WHITE gold honestly.Can I put him white gold,mommies??
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When you discover you’re pregnant you probably have no idea just how much your life is going to change. It all starts with morning sickness, food cravings, and food aversions. Add in the extra weight, your hormones going crazy, and feeling like a beached whale. Before you know it, the little bundle of joy has arrived and you’ve fallen head over heals in love with someone brand spanking new to the world.


*There are so many ways your life will change, especially with your first child. Before there was just you and your partner; now there’s another little person to be concerned about. Gone are the days of being footloose and fancy free, but you won’t mind when you look into that little face.

*One of the major changes that happen with a new baby is the fact that uninterrupted sleep becomes a memory of the past. Newborns are notorious for not sleeping all night long from the start, so expect that you’ll lose quite a bit of sleep. If you plan to breastfeed, your partner won’t be able to help with feeding unless you decide to use a breast pump.

*Don’t expect to be able to eat a hot meal again for a while, either. Even if you think you have your little one in bed asleep, they seem to know when you’ve had your second bite of dinner. Before you know it, you have to get up and tend to them. When you get back to eat, your dinner will be cold. You’ll find that the microwave can truly become a valued member of your family.

*Going out will be a whole new experience as well. Expect to change the baby at least twice before you actually make it out the door. Keep your baby’s diaper bag with everything babies need, stocked with a change of clothes, plenty of diapers, wipes, and anything else you usually have in there. Try to leave an hour before you need to so you’ll actually leave about on time.


*Traveling anywhere will never be the same. Packing for you and your partner will seem the same, but you’ll be surprised how much you’ll have to pack for such a little person. Car seat, playpen, toys, and their clothes are often needed. You may think of other items you’ll need, as well.


*Fathers can expect to take the back seat to the baby. They may feel frustrated about having to share with the baby since new moms are super focused on the baby and the baby’s needs. This is a normal reaction. Before too long she’ll have more time to focus on you and your relationship.No worries..


*Take the time to share and bond with the baby, and you’ll see why he’s so enamored.


Baby...Now you are leaving your babyhood behind..How time flies,you are 11months old !Another 1 month shy before reaching your first birthday.We love you so much,Ryan Raffael.We will do whatever makes you happy!We will protect you!
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Instead of pointing,5 vocabulary words and signed 7 activities,he also imitate people alot.


-You blink your eyes,he blink back to you.He would follow if you do ''ba ba'' sound with your palm on your mouth and ect.


-Agressive towards other kids.He either bite,poke,beat or slap em up with ''eHH'' sound(Recently masa raya,Ryan angkat bowl nestum and tuang kat muka his 6months old cousin Peter yang tengah baring.Could you imagine 1 muka baby Peter penuh nestum sampai masuk nostrill and tumbuk mata his 15months old friend Carl.*Sigh*


Nothing else we can do unless to stay him away from other kids!LOL
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

-30th October 2008-
Now that our handsome boy is only 1 month shy of his 1st birthday!Here is his updated milestones:
-12.5kg,88cm tall
-Maintain XL Diapers
-5 vocabs (Says mommy and daddy to the right person,mam mam,nenen,and a car)
-Pointing
-Still walking
-Maintain 6 teeths
-Still signing ''No,hungry,mineral,poo-poo,clap,high 5 and waves good bye'' since 7 months
-Immitates people movement
-Hyper climber
-Pulls our hands to do something such beat something/clap together
-Passes toys to other people
-Friendlier yet become naughtier
-Put balls into basket
-Understands our commands such ''NO'',''Come here'' or ''Take the ball'' ect
-Clumsy,talkative,choosy yet smart baby
-Tantrums getting worse specialy on what he wants
-Never sit still
-Sleepwalker
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

A winner goes to Nur Rabecca!!(http://nurrabecca.blogspot.com) Look at her cheeky pose&pocoyo wannabe snow cap,devoted to win the contest!!

Her greatest Pocoyo style,greatest blog about the give away and mom's 5 greatest elaborated words are totally amazad us!Congratulations!!

Remark:Mom of Nur Rabecca,please email me your home address and phone number(s) to mommystephanieliah@gmail.com .

And the rest of you darlings,nice wild try!Adat bertanding,menang atau kalah.Your child might not meet the Pocoyo criteria OR uncheck the requirement of the contest.Thanks for participat on my fun-fun bloggers give away,yeah!Lets get back to our blogsphere!Thank You!

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Only 20 lucky babies over 77 participants are randomly selected for the final,congratulations!!For those who are not selected,dont give up!Aint no mean they arent cute,looser or whatsoever,darlings.Bare in your mind,your children are blessed to have you.Here they are!!








Judge:My beloved mom,Datin Nelly.
PLS KINDLY TAKE NOTE:A WINNER WILL BE POSTED ON THE SAME ENTRY WITHIN A WEEK.TQ.
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1.Become a follower of my blog and leave a comment to let me know (or, if you are already a follower, tell me that too!)
2.Blog about this giveaway and describe your child in 5 words and elaborate them(English/Bahasa).Then leave a comment with the link to your post on my giveaway entry.Open to boys and girls.


3.Sent ONE cutest style with SNOW CAP(For example:photo above-any colours)


4.Age:Newborn-6 Years Old,only ONE child.
5.Copy paste the sticky mode and put it on the side bar.Remark:The contest closes on 1st October 2009,12pm.A Winner will be chosen using random(greatest pocoyo style),greatest blog about give away and 5 greatest elaborated words and announced within a week.Thanks for participating!

Only ONE winner!
1st Prize:Fisher Price bouncer and Fisher Price Playmat!!(We are moving out and need to give away those outgrow items)
GOOD LUCK!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

There are parents who are considering sending their kids either to private,International or goverment school. In fact, some wealthy parents want to send their kids to study in Singapore.As for me,we are planning to send our Ryan to Saudi Arabian International Primary and Secondary School in Kuala Lumpur itself.

Learning a new language is a wonderful thing. It should be encouraged that everyone to pick up a second, even a third language. It is an advantage that would increases their chances of getting hired, at least in US ok.

Nonetheless, I believe the fear is why Arabic?I dont mind learning Arabic if it is taught as a language that allows me to communicate with fellow Arabic speaking people. However, if it is taught from only the religious point of view- Quran, or other related materials only, I think such narrow approach is not the way to do it. I do understand that in Malaysia, Quran and Arabic is closely related but that shouldnt be the motivation to make it compulsory. It questions the original purpose of encouraging students to learn Arabic. What does that has to do with business? And if economy is the reason, what happen to fellow Muslim students who really want to learn more about their religion? There will be a clear conflict on the objective of learning among fellow Muslim and non-Muslim.Just Imagine,there are 80% arabians and whites and I was surprised coz 15% are chinese(local) in Arabic school Kuala Lumpur,while the malays are the minority!


Despite the fact that China is growing as an economy giant, it cannot be underestimate too that Middle East and Africa is not at all useless.In the US, foreign language is offered and made compulsory. However, there is a list of a few to choose from. Meanwhile, they could switch classes if they find it hard to follow, whenever situation allowed. If they dont take it during high school, they are expected to make it up during college. Although from what I see, they do not necessary reach the level to communicate effectively, that's the way they do it.


However, to say that one should learn a language because of economic reason only is a narrow-minded view. If that is true, why people bother to learn Sanskrit, Latin, or other extinct language? We should not limit the reason for people (kids especially) to pick up a language because China is growing or Russia is coming up. Let them explore. Friends, drama, manga, anime, religion, etc. Learning a language yet by-passing the cultural beauty, is a waste of time. A lot of time, people in this category will end up learning to pass the class, requirement, or to show off they know something, which is a waste of time. I will cry for the teacher.

And for our son,we disccused about it before and we finds Arabic School is quit intresting.We are planning to send Ryan to Saudi Arabian Primary and Secondary in future.Insya Allah.No,and not because we want him to become a VERY OBSESSED in Islamic but,just because to master the language,Insya Allah to Tahfiz and 'making money' thing in future!(and I nak la 'cucu' arab hikhihkihk)Just like any other International school..Japanese,Korean and ect.


And we found there are 3 International Arabic Schools in Kuala Lumpur.


1.International Islamic School


-Annual Fees-RM12,000-16,000


2.Saudi Arabian Primary and Secondary School


-Annual Fees-RM4,200-RM4,800.


3.Iragi School


-Annual Fees-RM1,000-RM1,800


*All subjects are provided in Jawi*
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


Remember that I told you before regarding adoption in previous post?

CLICK :http://ryanraffael.blogspot.com/2009/06/off-topic-im-expecting.html

-Tak jadi!

-Ibu dia nak anak dia selepas delivery...See..the power of 'mom'.

---Alhamdulilah la dia nak bela,dari buang...Btw she delivered last month.Seems like low-birth weight-baby.Enough said.

Oh my,bad news is we lost our camera!Semua pic raya dalam tu.Damn it!Luckily photo2 Ryan sentiasa dalam backup before this.

Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


Name:Amina Binti So'ad @ Mina,34yrs old,Divorced with no kids.Indonesian.Yes,I repeat ; Indonesian.So far,yes rajin,buat tanpa disuruh,tak banyak songeh.

PSST-I dont and never ever trust anyone sepanjang hidup I ;p .

Our Bibik's Daily Routine


-Mop satu rumah,5 bedrooms,balcony,4bathrooms,store,kitchen and gardening.Sapu the whole house,laundry,dishes,ironing,cleaning all the dust and everything about the house EVERY DAY EXCEPT for Ryan's!Nah,sape berani jadi maid I?Hahaha.I cukup respect maid dirumah parents I,they are Filipino and jaga I dari kecik sampai form 3,they even still working with my parents ever since until now.LOL,Im not sarcastic but I would prefer myself to do everything when comes to my Mr.Ryan and Mr.Remy.Nah Bibik Mina,the whole house are yours.Or else,I rest my case!


Eventho I ni strict pada kesemua maid I,tapi I ni la paling sporting bagi dia bergaya,bermake up,shopping kan barang2 dia,celebrate their bday, and ect.Bukan main lagi I bagi dia hidup senang,so dia mesti bagi hati I senang gak.Kalau tak reti nak hargai I,siapla,Bik!

Take Note:We applied 4 hidden CCTV systems at the whole house including 1 at the main gate.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

My 10 months old son barely says a word since 7months.He was saying 'mommy' at 8months and 'daddy' at 7months and says 'nenen' at 9months when hungry.He perfectly signed 'no,wave good bye,clap,high five,hungry,pointing and ect before 8months of age.He also recognize between mineral and milk bottle as well.He points and grunts alot.
Recently,when he saw CAR anywhere around him(Including toys/real car),he said CAR!(coz we used to point and says 'ball','car' and ect.Even his Tonka car toys,he will says 'car..car' and point to the car.And if he is in the car,he will repeat 'car...car' and laughed.My husband started to notice Ryan's latest vocab this few weeks and then we realized that Ryan really mean the words everytime he saw car/his Tonka car toys.Good job,son!Mommy and daddy really proud of you.He is learning by watching our mouths in fascination I guess.The paediatrician said that was way good to say that as many as 3,4 words at this age.
Studies have shown that children growing up in a bilingual or multilingual environment may take a little more time to start speaking (although still within normal range). However, in the long run they not only catch up but generally surpass their peers in vocabulary and general language skills.
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Cotton Bud entry.
Actually,he started to imitate our movement at 6 months.But again last month,tengah I tengok TV,tiba-tiba ada satu budak handsome datang tanpa disedari and poked my ear with cotton bud and laughed !I was shocked.What a smart baby.Ryan tau apa kegunaan cotton buds?Perhap YES,yeah you know everyday cleaning his ears,nose...So he might be imitates us.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


Being a parent is one of the most rewarding yet challenging jobs you can have. No one is born being a natural mom or dad; these skills are learned. Here are some tips to help you be the best father you can be for your kids:


Start Early, Never Stop -
Begin your relationship with your son or daughter at birth. It is never too early to talk, tickle, caress, kiss, and play with your child – the sooner, the better. Equally important, don’t stop! Showing affection, asking questions, sharing your world, and getting to know your baby – these are the building blocks to a strong relationship.



Realize That No One Is a Natural -
No one is born a dad or mom. Your responsibility is to make the time and commit the energy to learn the skills you will need to be a caring, compassionate, and competent dad. The learning never ends and kids are great teachers!


Respect Your Children's Mother -
One of the best things a father can do for his children is to respect their mother. If you are married, keep your marriage strong and vital. If you're not married, it is still important to respect and support the mother of your children. A father and mother who respect each other, and let their children know it, provide a secure environment for them. When children see their parents respecting each other, they are more likely to feel that they are also accepted and respected.


Spend Time with Your Children -
How a father spends his time tells his children what's important to him. If you always seem to busy for your children, they will feel neglected no matter what you say. Treasuring children often means sacrificing other things, but it is essential to spend time with your children. Kids grow up so quickly. Missed opportunities are forever lost.



Earn the Right to Be Heard -
All too often the only time a father speaks to his children is when they have done something wrong. That's why so many children cringe when their mother says, "Your father wants to talk with you." Begin talking with your kids when they are very young so that difficult subjects will be easier to handle as they get older. Take time and listen to their ideas and problems.


Discipline with Love -
All children need guidance and discipline, not as punishment, but to set reasonable limits. Remind your children of the consequences of their actions and provide meaningful rewards for desirable behavior. Fathers who discipline in a calm and fair manner show love for their children.

Be a Role Model -
Fathers are role models to their kids whether they realize it or not. A girl who spends time with a loving father grows up knowing she deserves to be treated with respect by boys, and what to look for in a husband. Fathers can teach sons what is important in life by demonstrating honesty, humility and responsibility. "All the world's a stage..." and a father plays one of the most vital roles.


Be a Teacher, Teach by Example -
If you thought you would never be a teacher, think again! Every dad is a teacher simply by being in the presence of his child. Your words, expressions and actions have a direct impact on your child right from the start. Too many fathers think teaching is something others do. But a father who teaches his children about right and wrong, and encourages them to do their best, will see his children make good choices. Involved fathers use everyday examples to help their children learn the basic lessons of life.


Eat Together as a Family -
Sharing a meal together (breakfast, lunch or dinner) can be an important part of healthy family life. In addition to providing some structure in a busy day, it gives kids the chance to talk about what they are doing and want to do. It is also a good time for fathers to listen and give advice. Most importantly, it is a time for families to be together each day.


Read to Your Children -
In a world where television often dominates the lives of children, it is important that fathers make the effort to read to their children. Children learn best by doing and reading, as well as seeing and hearing. Begin reading to your children when they are very young. When they are older encourage them to read on their own. Instilling your children with a love for reading is one of the best ways to ensure they will have a lifetime of personal and career growth.




Have More Awe, Less Frustration -
Unrealistic expectations are the source of unnecessary frustration for you and your child. The quicker you can become familiar with what is realistic to expect of your son or daughter as they grow – physically, intellectually, and emotionally – the more you will revel in the joy of the father/child relationship.



Show Affection -
Children need the security that comes from knowing they are wanted, accepted and loved by their family. Parents, especially fathers, need to feel both comfortable and willing to hug their children. Showing affection everyday is the best way to let your children know that you love them.


Say You're Sorry -
Being a dad is an awesome responsibility and you will make mistakes. Remember, you are not alone – every dad (and mom) will do things they later would not consider good parenting. Saying "I'm sorry" will help both you and your child in the long run.


Realize that a Father's Job Is Never Done -
Even after children are grown and ready to leave home, they will still look to their fathers for wisdom and advice. Whether it's continued schooling, a new job or a wedding, fathers continue to play an essential part in the lives of their children as they grow and, perhaps, marry and build their own families.




Sharing is caring ;)

-Source : www.fatherhood.org-
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal



Look at his naughtiest progress!
Our Ryan is a climber since 7months of age.He's walking at 9months and it has gotten worse ever-since we moved to a landed house(Yes,the staircase!). He climbed up his rocking chair till on top but cant climb down at 7months tho.He also climbed up on my bed when he was 9 months old.He now climbs the stairs, gate,bookshelf,sofa,walker and ect until the peak at 10months.And he can perfectly climb down now.Clap clap.But still,I have to watch him tho.He scares me to the bones.I just frozen up and cant get this kinda moment captured!Once I went off to kitchen just for a while and when I turned,he was already upstairs!I ran like a sexy hawk just to get him but the more I wanna scoop him,the faster he goes up and laugh!What a fast naughty climber.Owh mommy's boy,it wasnt funny!Specially the staircase,need to get 1 baby gate soon.Freaking dangerous tho!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Woohoo!Now I remember..I lupa nak post our 3rd year of anniversary entry into our son's journal.Hehehe.Was very busy updating my son's blog kan.Lepas celebrate our anniversary on 20th June,terus lupa nak masukkan our anniversary entry.Maklumlah 'high' dekat laptop HP Tablet PC RM9k,you!3 set of La Senza lingeries and so on..Thanks baby!Nah,this is for you coz I knw you read our son's blog ;)


Happy 3rd Year Anniversary,darling!

And im still counting....
Love you hubby.Thanks for everything.
First I want u to know that I love you to death and you are amazing my prince charming,Remy Rizal..
I promise you my love
I promise you my heart
I promise you my life
I promise we'll never be apart
I promise not to hurt you
I promise to never make you cry
I promise to always trust you
I promise not to lie
I promise you forever
I promise you tonight
I promise you my respect
I promise to do things right
I promise to always be there
I promise until the end
I promise to always love you
I promise to be your best friend
I promise you my love
I promise you my life
I promise this forever
I promise our love is my life:
your the PEANUT to my BUTTER ,
your the STAR to my BURST,
your the POP to my TART,
your the MILKY to my WAY,
your the FRUIT to my LOOP,
your the MILK to my DUDS,
your the LUCKY to my CHARMS,
your the PUPP to my PUSS,
your the ICE to my CREAM,
your the PRINCE to my PARIS,
your the GHETTO to my BOOTY,
but mostly....
YOU ARE DEVOTED TO ME.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

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In Malaysia,its a common issue when their kids are sleeping in the same bed with parent.Sounds odd yeah?Luckily our son is crib trained since 5months of age.His crib just next to our masterbed room.Thot of separated him to the other room,but we thought its still too early tho.Just tolak his cot into our room,or just tidur at his own crib.As long he is sleeping in his own cot.
One can't get away from the thorny issue of sex.How, exactly, do you enjoy marital relations when you have a young child in the bed with you? Not in front of them, surely. So do you wait until they're asleep?And make it slow-mo and didnt concentrate at all to your partner coz afraid your child gonna awake?Sleeping with your spouse is a very important part of your relationship. Sharing your bed with someone is intimate and private, cementing the bond between you.With someone who can hug you all night long.. Children need to be allowed to grow up. They do it in stages: learning to crawl, then walk, then run.They learn to spend an hour away from their mothers, then a day, then a week.They have to graduate from sleeping in their mother's arms, to a cot and to their own bed and finally to their own room.
When each of our children got their first "grown-up" bed, it was a momentous moment for them. Every parent finds it difficult to let go. But you have to let it happen. As a parent, it's your job.That is why you should train them since newborn.If you wanna start it now(say your baby is 10months old)Nah,its too late I guess.Gotta wait for him to grow and understands your command.In 5 years time?Cool..
I might be sound selfish,but its true tho.Son is son.Relationship is relationship.Our son is crib trained,but yes,we still making love everywhere around the house instead of our masterbed even our son didnt sleep with us.Mostly case in Malaysia is cerai kerana seks.Secondly money.Think think think..
Note:For those who have crib trained,make sure you buy a baby monitor and clip it on their cot//bassinet/bed for safety purpose!




I wrote about this entry before but need to bring it up again since 1 of my follower were asking how come Ryan can pull himself up at 5months and walk at 9months.His first few steps were at 8months(12 giant leaps)I believe,this is one of the reason that he could walk as early as 9months,the rest are 'gifted'.Waiting for him to run at the park!


Ryan's uncle Dr.Fahmy keeps telling me,do not ever put Ryan into walker!We bought him the expensive ones tho but never encourage him to play in walker.Why?


Most babies love the freedom it gives them, they can now sneak up on the dog and pull his tail and run around from room to room. A negative to this could be that a child who enjoys this, even if just a little may stay in the baby walker too long. Studies show that baby walkers actually can slow development for muscles and walking and may even cause back problems later in life.


Parents often have the belief that walkers actually assist the baby in learning motor skills, both with dexterity and walking. When in actuality it is just the opposite that is true, the baby isn’t actually walking, it’s just experiencing propulsion. In addition motor skills are actually slowed, not increased during this process.

Most experts highly discourage the use of baby walkers. However, if you choose to use one you need to keep a few things in mind; this may seem more like common sense but over time it’s easy to allow complacency to move in. Consider putting the walker away when grandparents, friends and babysitters are with your child without you being there. Often these people have the best intentions, but may not understand the dangers that surround them. Take the extra step and put it away during these times.


As mentioned, most experts suggest not using baby walkers.If you make the choice to use one, be careful and understand the dangers around your child.But instead of walker,you can buy for them playpen,bouncer or rocking chair what..
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
-Lihatlah dagu botox and bulu mata palsu Ryan-


Sometimes....

Around 3am-6am


1.My 10months old Ryan woke up with open eyes,crawl and slap my face/pull my hair,then got back to sleep.

2.Ryan laugh out loud then got back to sleep.

3.Ryan climb and crawl then got back to sleep.


Are these signs of sleepwalking???

''Experts don't know exactly what causes sleepwalking, although it does appear to run in families. Sleepwalking can start any time after your child begins walking or crawling. And at least 15 percent of all young children will have an episode at some point.A sleepwalking child appears to be wide awake, though he's actually not. His eyes will be open, and he may even carry on a conversation, although it probably won't make much sense. He may wander aimlessly around the house; common behaviors include falling asleep in a closet or mistaking one for the bathroom''


Urrmm...
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

-Sudden Infant Death Syndrome/SIDS-

I did a lot research about SIDS on my 1st trimester of pregnancy.Its really scares me tho..As the name implies, SIDS is the sudden and unexplained death of an infant who is younger than 1 year old. It's a frightening prospect because it can strike without warning, usually in seemingly healthy babies. Most SIDS deaths are associated with sleep (hence the common reference to "crib death") and infants who die of SIDS show no signs of suffering.


When considering which babies could be most at risk, no single risk factor is likely to be sufficient to cause a SIDS death. Rather, several risk factors combined may contribute to cause an at-risk infant to die of SIDS.Most deaths due to SIDS occur between 2 and 4 months of age, and incidence increases during cold weather. African-American infants are twice as likely and Native American infants are about three times more likely to die of SIDS than caucasian infants.So moms,More boys than girls fall victim to SIDS.

Other potential risk factors include:
*Smoking, drinking, or drug use during pregnancy
*Poor prenatal care
*Prematurity or low birth-weight
*Mothers younger than 20
*Tobacco smoke exposure following birth
*Overheating from excessive sleepwear and bedding
*Stomach sleeping
*Too much toys/pillows
*Blanket/comforter



-Ryan in his pinky hammock-

-Shaken Baby Sindrome/SBS-

I read about SBS issue since the first trimester of pregnancy as well.That is the reason why Ryan's electric cradle jadi property show sekarang.We are not encourage him to sleep inside that hammock untill he turned 4months.Just that once a while during day time(slowest mode button) and accompanied.But since he can climb at 5months,I stopped him.Coz he wanna jump out from the hammock even secured.Luckily my son jenis yang senang tidur sejak lahir.Just pat pat pat panjat golek 360 tendang poke tampar gigit then dozed off untill the next morning.


Sometimes when a baby cries, a parent will shake the baby. The parent may think that shaking is not as bad as hitting or spanking. Some parents handle a baby too roughly in play.Never shake your baby!Babies have large heads and weak neck muscles. Brain tissue is very fragile. Sudden motion can damage brain cells. When an adult shakes a baby in anger, the force may be five to 10 times stronger than if the child had fallen.


The damage can kill or disable a child. Shaken babies can become blind or deaf. They can develop cerebral palsy or seizures. They can be left with severe learning or behavior problems.Avoid rough play, even though your baby seems to like it. Avoid any kind of rough or sudden movement.


Don't jog or jump with your baby on your back or shoulders.
Don't throw your baby into the air.
Don't spin your baby around.
Don't swing your baby around by a leg and arm or by the ankles.
Avoid cradle/buai/hammock for babies below 6months.(Or just slowest mode for older infant).

Tips:
If your baby stressed you out, stop what you're doing. Put your baby in a safe place/play pen.Past to your hubby or whoever around.Take a deep breath and jeling2 geram hehehe.Or call a friend.Write down your feelings.When you feel calm again, go back to your baby.Whisper soothing words. Gently stroke your baby's back. Pick up your baby and walk.This is how I control myself.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
This is just for fun yeah.This afternoon Mama Miera(http://www.mamamiera.blogspot.com/) told me that her son Haiqal does look like my hero,Ryan.Upon closer inspection,YES he does-In certain angle tho.As she agreed earlier,my hero more to caucasian,her prince more to pan asian and little Daniel more to arabian looks.What do you think mommies?Hehehe.Semangat nak buat entry ni sebab Mama Miera bagi cadangan.As she said,'cadangan merapu meraban'LOL.Enjoy viewing!




And,this is 12months old Daniel(In green carter).Her mom told me that her son does look like my Ryan,too!Hehehe.They are so adorable,dont you?


Ref:http://ryanraffael.blogspot.com/2009/06/double-trouble.html
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

I decided to breastfeed for many reasons, but the ONE biggest reason were the health of my child,Ryan Raffael.

1.Alhamdulilah,for the past 10months my son is wonderfully healthy,never had fever/flu/cough or diarrhea even during teething,hitting each milestone or immunisation.And he is advanced(milestones) such like other breastfed babies.
2.Thru BF itself,body I pun dah mantap instead of slimming center.
3.To shrink my servix faster and of course to prevent osteoporisis,cervical and breast cancer!(Im so sorry had to tell you this-a mother who did not breastfeeding her child less than 6 months,got higher chances of getting osteoporisis,servical and breast cancer!-NO offence to non-BF moms).

4.I am sure that seeing pictures of my mom breastfeeding me untill a year highly influenced my decision.

5.My husband was very supportive.He was breastfed untill 3 years old.

In preparation for my new role as a breastfeeding mother, I did a lot of research on the internet, bought numerous books on the subject, and read as many message boards as I could get my eyes on!Tell you what,untill I tersesat to kampung style website.LOL. Still, I was not as prepared as I would have liked to be - reading about breastfeeding is quite different from doing it!I had prepared for a natural childbirth.They worked fast and then laid my 3.8kg little boy in my arms, helping him to latch onto my breast.Ryan loved breastfeeding from the start. On the first night of his life, he nursed for three hours straight, and cried if I unlatched him.

After those three hours, I finally got up to use the bathroom and Ryan started to cry again. Our nurse came in and took charge - she convinced us that she should take the baby out of the room and use a pacifier or a my EBM to calm him down.


I awoke a few hours later when the nurse returned with Ryan, who was asleep after crying and receiving a 2 ounces of my EBM.We did not see a lactation consultant until the afternoon of the second day in the hospital. By then, my nipples were ravaged. My lactation consultant told me I had big boobs but slightly flat nipples, making it a bit difficult for my son to get a deep enough latch. We did the best we could, and used a nipple shield when I could not establish a good latch.It took two days for my milk to come in fully. By that time, I was struggling with engorgement.


As a young mom and without any experience, I hated breastfeeding, and my son seemingly nursed non-stop. I cried every time he latched on. The books all told me that an average nursing session lasted 30-45 minutes, but my son would nurse for hours. I cursed the books and doggedly kept going (I'm nothing if not stubborn haha).Its harder than my Degree!


When Ryan was 30 days old, we visited a breastfeeding support group in Gleaneagles Hospital. It changed my life. I know that sounds dramatic, but hearing the stories from other moms, especially those women who were going through the same things or even experiencing much worse problems, changed my perspective completely. We weighed my son and I learned that he had gained 7kgs(at 30days old) since leaving the hospital! I felt proud that even though we were experiencing trouble, my son was thriving on my milk. It gave me the motivation to keep going.Armed with the support of the group that met weekly, and remedies for sore nipples I kept nursing.


I made sure to focus on proper latching techniques, and I memorized everything on internet/books.I returned to modeling line when my son was 6 months old. By this time, we had turned a corner and breastfeeding was going much more smoothly.I pumped 6 times per day. My abundant milk supply has made pumping easy but because the breastpump is not as efficient as a nursing baby even im using an electric ones.These things just seem to come with the territory of oversupply.For the first month untill Ryan 4months of age,I had stored 150-200 ounces of milk stashed in my freezer PER DAY. I donated some of it to a new mom in who was experiencing low supply.Thats why I ada 1 anak susuan named Alwee.Her son has thrived, and I feel proud that I have helped contribute to his health!


When Ryan turns 7months,Im struggled to pump even my supply was getting low.He cried,he is comfirmed by paed greedy baby.We seek our paed and lactation consultant.I jap a prolactin and again,my breastfeeding journey getting smoothly.But when my son turns 9months,he is getting choosy regarding his foods.He is throwing up all my milk each feeding and refuses direct(he bite) as well coz he get used to EBM(my mistake).So I mixed them up with Enfapro A+.So,you know what is going to happen when you mix things up right?Nah,my breastmilk supply are getting dry,dry and dry...


Ryan turned 10months 2 days old today,and he weighs 12kg+ and 90cm tall, which means he wears 18m-24m clothing.He is a food lover.He has taken to solids, and milk is still the primary source of his nutrition(24ounces per day). He is wonderfully healthy,for the past 10months Alhamdulilah he never had fever/flu/cough or diarrhea.He is the happiest baby I've ever met in my life.It is one more challenge to overcome in our nursing relationship - a bond that I expect will continue until Ryan decides he is ready to cut the ties to his babyhood.By today(31th August 2009)Im officially quit breastfeeding my son,not even a drop.And no more breastpad.And now,when he stop nursing,I can honestly say I miss it!I was cried yesterday and luckily I had a romantic hubby,he bought me Louis Vuitton handbag and Gucci shades..Yeah,he knw that Im a high maintenance and branded type of woman.My dad warned him before.Hehehe.


Note:So now moms,continue your breastfeeding journey and dont simply judge me just because Im finally stopped breastfeeding my son at 10months.Do not ever ask me to continue or tips to keep my supply back,coz I wont bother.My blog is not a discussion board.Get a life and leave a proper comment or DONT.Respect human problem.Thank You.


Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
NO HONEY FOR BABIES BELOW A YEAR
Honey is composed of two main sugars, levulose and dextrose. These sugars do not need to be broken down by the digestive process, so honey is quickly absorbed into the bloodstream, giving a quick energy boost to the body. It also contains protein, vitamins and minerals, but no cholesterol.

Darker honeys have more nutrients than light ones. Vitamin and mineral content depend on the floral source of the honey. Honey has less than 2% sodium, and as such can be labeled as a sodium-free product by Food & Drug Administration standards.

Although honey is a natural, healthy food that normally cannot support bacterial life, it's important to note that it can carry C. Botulinum spores which may be harmful to the undeveloped immune systems of infants. The old practice of dipping pacifiers into honey/into warm water to soothe crying babies should be aborted. Infants up to one year of age should not be fed raw honey, as their immune systems are not yet developed enough to fend off this normally benign strain.

Infection can cause a flaccid paralysis weakening the baby's muscles, causing a "floppy" baby. Other symptoms include constipation, lethargy, poor feeding, weak cry, droopy eyelids, expressionless face, drooling or swallowing difficulty, and occasionally, respiratory arrest. By the age of one year, most children develop enough to resist this normally benign strain of botulinum. Infant botulism is rarely lethal, but is obviously easy to avoid in this instance.

Although food manufacturers make extensive use of honey in their products, baby food manufacturers, as a rule, will not include honey in their foods recommended for those babies under one year of age. It must also be pointed out that infant botulism is not exclusive to the ingestion of honey. The botulism spore can also be found in dust, soil and other uncooked foods that older children and adults are exposed to daily. The risk is minimal. Yet, it is an avoidable risk, and honey should not be fed to infants under the age of twelve months!


Some baby food below 1 procucts may contains honey,should refer your paed first.Its no harm for trial actually but you must stop giving him if its cause any allergies to your baby.
Don't play the odds. But some baby is OK with honey but depends on baby itself.Every babies are different.Same goes to peanut.




All of babies will be tested for G6PD deficiency right after birth and this is stated in a card along with their blood group. So, what is G6PD? I did a small research about this since hubby's friend son comfirmed G6PD.

Glucose-6-Phosphate Dehydrogenase(G6PD) deficiency is the most common human enzyme deficiency; an estimated 400 million people worldwide are affected by this enzymopathy (Scriver etal., 1995). One benefit of having G6PD deficiency is that it confers a resistance to malaria. G6PD deficiency is also sometimes referred to as favism since some G6PD deficient individuals are also allergic to fava beans/peanut. Individuals with reduced G6PD activity are at risk for several pathologies which can be potentially serious (even causing death) if they are not properly treated.The severity of the pathologies associated with G6PD deficiency has prompted researchers to study this condition.

Problems for newborn babies
If a mother carries G6PD deficiency, she may pass it on to some of her children and some may get jaundiced (yellow) in the newborn period. This is particularly likely for baby boys. Severe jaundice can be serious for newborn babies if it is not treated. It is usually treated by putting the baby under a special light for a few days. Many babies with G6PD deficiency are diagnosed because they have jaundice soon after birth. Once the jaundice has passed they should not get other problems from G6PD deficiency provided they avoid broad beans/peanut and the drugs listed on the back page.


Problems for children and adults
Most people with G6PD deficiency have completely normal health. However, problems can occur occasionally. These problems are much more common in boys and men with G6PD deficiency than girls and women. Some children and adults with G6PD deficiency may develop haemolysis and anaemia if they get a fever or if they take one of the medicines. Some people may develop haemolysis and anaemia if they eat broad beans/peanut (this is called favism). An affected person feels unwell, becomes pale and jaundiced (yellow) and may have a backache and pass dark urine.Alhamdulilah,me and my husband side are free from G6PD.

Take Note:Avoid using mosq.repellent spray/sticker/peanut/ground nut/broad beans if your kids comfirmed G6PD.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


The following list offers a number of simple things that you can do to help your child stay at a healthy weight:

*Teach moderation.
Excessively large portions are now commonplace in restaurants and at home. Try serving small portions at meals, then allowing your child to have a second portion if he wants. In restaurants, encourage ordering the small size instead of the giant size whenever possible or suggest taking home part of the meal and saving it for a future lunch or dinner.



*Limit snacking.
Although most children do, in fact, need between-meal snacks for normal growth, they don't need to snack all day long. Don't be afraid to limit your child to one snack two or three times a day.


*Avoid fried foods.
Frying foods adds calories, not nutrition. Choose other methods of cooking, such as rubbing on a small amount of vegetable oil to foods and then baking. If your child likes French fries, encourage him to share an order instead of getting his own.Choose healthy snack foods. Large bags of potato or corn chips left on kitchen counters or in the front of cabinets invite nibbling even when not hungry. Buying an occasional small bag and storing it at the back of the cabinet prevents snacking on it just because it's there. Try keeping a bowl of fruit out on the kitchen table instead. Low-fat popcorn, rice cakes, and pretzels also make good alternatives.


*Use some reduced-fat products.
Many commonly eaten foods are now available in lower fat versions. Try low-fat milk (even the 1 percent fat milk tastes pretty good), cheese,yogurt, mayonnaise, ice cream, and crackers. Just keep in mind that young children do, in fact, need fat in their diets, so don't drastically restrict their fat intake.Go easy on sugary drinks. "Supersize" bottles and cups of soda, punch, fruit juice, and sports drinks are extremely popular--and full of extra calories. Suggest drinking water to quench thirst instead, or dilute these sweet beverages with water to help avoid your child filling up on empty calories.


*Be active.
Regular physical activity is key to controlling weight. Limit television watching and computer games while promoting walking, biking, playing ball, dancing, swimming--anything fun that makes you move.


Above all else, be a good role model. Rather than nagging or lecturing your child about a healthy lifestyle, show him how it's done. Your child is more likely to take an active approach to life and enjoy healthy foods if you do.Ryan was born big at 3.884kg.Just imagined,2nd day of his life were 4.6kg.And he was 16kg at 8months and now Alhamdulilah with 90cm tall,12kg at 9 months.Already back to normal but yet still above average(Average static would be 8kg+ or below 9kg for 9months)


Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

I never thought I would be the type of mom to actually use one of these...Whenever I saw parents with them I thought they were cruel but the positive side is for SAFETY.Inhuman?But,we bought Elmo 2 in 1 harness(backpack and wrist strap) for Ryan since I was 6months of pregnancy.It worth to try,why not kan?Just standby into his travel system(together with stroller mosq.net,stroller rain cot ect).I tied on him once,but nah,my son doesnt like it.He refuses to walk with this harness.He bites and keep pulling the strap.


-According to my friends review-

Hot Mommy 1
''And now my son could run.This is a great way to teach a child. Taite is a very "go go go" baby. He likes to be on the move all the time.And when I don't wear him he wants to run.Seriously would loose him if you didn't walk behind him the entire time. Keeping him in the stroller worked some days.But other days he just refused to sit quietly in the stroller.He wanted to walk and explore the world.''


Hot Mommy 2
''I needed a way to let him enjoy walking.Without allowing him to run wild throughout everywhere.So I decided to try the harness method out.I still think it looks sort of inhuman.But I do think it works well for my son.And that its allowing me a way to let Taite walk.Without loosing him or chasing him like a sexy duck.LOL!And it is also giving me the chance to correct him when he tries walking away specially in the crowded place/park or even on the road.''


Hot Mommy 3
''A simple tug and he gets the point.This harness also doubles as a back pack.You can unhook the strap if needed.They do look pretty cute with the little back pack on.Well,its optional.Some parents may like it and some may not.''

Urmm,What do you think moms?Any experience?
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Not every baby who feels warm has a fever
Babies at this age don't control their body temperatures as well as older children. Becoming too warm is often related to how warmly they are dressed. If your baby feels warm to the touch but cools down quickly when unbundled, and is otherwise acting well, chances are it isn't a true fever or cause for concern.
When to take fever seriously
Somewhere around six months of age, your baby's immune system becomes more fully developed, and she will start to fight infections more effectively.I consider four to nine months a transitional period when fevers in otherwise healthy babies (they're eating well and not acting sick) don't automatically require a phone call to the doctor. However, most healthcare professionals will still use a little extra caution when evaluating babies this age.This would include the evaluation of any baby with a high fever (e.g., higher than 102 degrees F, 38.8 degrees C), or any baby who isn't eating well or looks sick. Providers' definitions of "fever" and "high fever" may vary a bit, so be sure you clarify when your baby's provider wants to be called about your baby's fever. Of course, you should always call if you are concerned.
What's Fever and What Isn't?
Don't depend on fever as your only sign of infection.Even in the absence of fever, you should watch your baby for other signs of infection such as irritability, lethargy, or poor feeding. Don't wait for a fever to seek medical attention if you have concerns about your baby's health.
Common causes
The most common causes of fever in a baby this age are generally the same as for you or me, viral infections. If your baby has symptoms of a viral infection, such as a cold or diarrhea, especially if she has been exposed to others with the same symptoms, she may well have the same infection.Babies may become much sicker than older children and adults with the same infection. The same cold that causes a simple runny nose for an eight-year-old may cause fever, congestion, poor sleep, poor feeding, and even vomiting in a baby. The best approach is to limit your baby's direct exposure to people who are sick, especially people with fever.
How fever affects your baby's eating
Many babies start eating baby cereal and foods by around six months of age. For some babies, having a fever may not affect their fluid or food intake, and this is very reassuring. It is very common, however, for babies who develop fevers with viral infections at this age to lose interest in solid foods until they feel better. There's no need to focus on how much solid food your baby eats while she has a fever and cold.However, keeping track of your baby's fluid intake is very important when she has a fever. Pay attention to how much and how often your baby is drinking compared to her normal intake.Fever, as well as vomiting and diarrhea, can lead to dehydration. Even if they do not have vomiting or diarrhea, babies can become dehydrated more quickly than larger children and adults. Offer more frequent breast- or bottle-feedings and pay close attention to whether your baby starts to urinate less often, as this can be a sign of dehydration. Be sure to discuss with your baby's healthcare provider any concerns you may have.
Taking your baby's temperature
Although there are several types of thermometers available, some are not accurate or appropriate for use in babies. Many new parents cringe at the thought of using a rectal thermometer, but many health professionals consider it the most appropriate method for taking a baby's temperature. If you have questions about the type of thermometer to use or how to use it, don't hesitate to ask your baby's healthcare provider, and even request a demonstration.When using a rectal thermometer, I find it easiest to put the baby on her back with legs folded up to her belly (like I'm changing a diaper), while others prefer to have the baby lay on her belly across their lap.Using a little petroleum jelly on the metal tip, you can easily and gently slide it into your baby's rectum just far enough that the metal is no longer showing.Do not force the thermometer, and once it is in place, gently hold your baby's buttocks together to keep the thermometer from slipping. The most practical way to know when it's OK to take it out is when the mercury stops rising or the beep sounds on a digital thermometer. Be aware that every now and then, taking a rectal temperature can trigger your baby to have a bowel movement.
Treating your baby's fever
Many healthcare providers will ask that you not use medicine to treat your baby's fever so that you can follow the course of the fever, especially in a baby who appears well, who is eating and sleeping well, and behaving normally. While healthcare providers have varying preferences in approaching fever in babies, there are a few accepted rules to follow.
Types of medication
Acetaminophen (found in Tylenol®, Tempra®, etc.) is available for use in babies, but should be given only if recommended by your child's health care provider. It should not be given more often than every four to six hours.Ibuprofen (found in Motrin®, Advil®, etc.) is NOT recommended for use in children under six months of age, and many health professionals recommend it not be used for babies under 12 months. Check with your baby's provider before using ibuprofen.Do NOT use aspirin for fever in children.
Dosing
Acetaminophen products for treating fever in babies usually come in the liquid form to be given by mouth. Be sure you know exactly what type of liquid form you have because there are many types available and the strength of the medication will vary. Acetaminophen also can be given rectally as a suppository.Dosing is based on your baby's weight. When in doubt, be sure to ask your child's provider for an appropriate dose. The dose will change as your baby grows. Read labels of all medications carefully.
Giving your baby the medicine
Liquid medication usually comes with a medicine dropper. It's best given by leaning your baby back slightly and putting the dropper in one of her cheeks. Check with your child's healthcare provider or your pharmacist before mixing medicine with either baby food or drinks.Suppositories are actually very quick and easy, as well as painless. Although most parents I talk to shudder at the thought of using suppositories, they are especially useful for a baby who is vomiting, who won't take medicine by mouth or spits it out, or even who is sleeping.I find it easiest to have a baby on his back with legs folded up to his belly (like I'm changing a diaper).
Tips:
Using a little petroleum jelly on the suppository, you can easily and gently slide it into your baby's rectum. Gently hold your baby's buttocks together for a minute or so after inserting the suppository. Be aware that every now and then, this "procedure" can trigger your baby to have a bowel movement. If a bowel movement occurs immediately following the suppository, you can repeat the dose. But if it occurs more than a few minutes after you have inserted the suppository, discuss with your child's healthcare provider when another dose should be given so that you don't overdose your child.
Alhamdulilah,for the past 10months,our Ryan tak pernah lagi fever/cough/flu.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


-30th October 2008-
Our precious Ryan Raffael turns 10 months tonite(30th).Again,time really flies.Nothing much to update I guess coz now Alhamdulilah he had achieved all of his infancy milestones by 9months(he already walk),just that he is getting smarter such other babies at his age.He knows to sign mineral bottle and milk bottle when thirsty.He understands 'No' command and pointing.(Advanced babies can walk by 9months and before their birthday-sorry ye Suhaila,I knw you hates advanced kids).Even expert says if your baby can walk by 9months or earlier,your child are gifted.He mastered sit to crawl at 4months and now Ryan able to walk,6teeths,12kg,wears 18-24months and maintain XL diapers since 6months.He mastered climbing over bed,sofa,gate,bookshelf,stairs and able to climb down.Here I would like to share with all of my followers/silent reader about the infancy term before Ryan and your baby explored their toddler term.

Every infant is an active learner. While it may seem that many of the actions your infant engages in during the day are random and spontaneous, the fact of the matter is that virtually every movement and sound has a purpose that contributes to their understanding of the world.

*Through clinching, biting, grasping, turning, babbling and bubbling, your infant is experimenting with all the resources at him/her disposal--using him/her body and its immediate surroundings to find out how things work internally and externally. Your infant thinks, but thinks with him/her body.


*Provide him/her with things she can grasp, roll around, push into, hit at, caress, and, in other ways, interact with. Talk and sing to her frequently and respond to her own babbling with appropriate noises of your own. The sound of your voice provides important modeling for future language acquisition.

*Hold him/her frequently and play "pat a cake" and other fun games that help develop him/her sensory motor awareness. Provide her with a range of new experiences everyday. In this way, you'll be helping her do what she does naturally--actively learn about the nature of life.
During the first year of life, a baby goes through a series of stages of physical coordination that won't be repeated. It is fascinating to watch this human development, this urge to be upright, to stand, to walk. It is a strong and exciting human urge that defies almost any attempt to stop it.
* Physical development in infants in general works from top to toe. First there's control of the head, then the trunk (sitting up), the body (standing), and finally, the legs (walking).
* It's common for a child to pull up to a standing position and then cry because he or she is unable to return to the sitting position. It's a frustration that lasts about three weeks until a child learns to drop. So don't get angry over having to help out repeatedly during this period, it will pass.
* You can help your baby walk by holding the baby's torso, rather than the arms or legs for support. Encourage walking in an area where the floors are not slippery or too hard for falls.
Do take the time to mark these milestones on a calendar, a journal, or in a baby book also blogspot!These wonderful, unforgettable events can all too soon be forgotten!!So every moms must understand any moms dont have any intention to show off their babies unless you TERLEBEY SUDAH put an extra statement of ''Anak I boleh buat ini itu power handal dahsyat tantrum bijak LEBIH DARI ANAK ORANG LAIN''.Bare in your mind,your blog is open to public!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Moms are people, too. If you want to look good, but save time doing so, here are some simple beauty tips for you.

When you have kids, you don’t seem to take as much time for yourself. You will see many moms running around with no make up, sweats, and a hat on just because they lack the time and energy to keep up their appearance on a daily basis. However, every mom knows that just a little time spent on appearance can really change how your feel about yourself. If you lack the time, then consider these quick beauty tips for moms on the run.


Shower at Night
One of the best ways to make sure you are ready to go in the morning is to change your daily routine and shower at night.Avoid cold water or late nite shower(before 8pm).Warm water is the best,its relaxing.Put some aroma scent drop and chill .Wait until after the kids go to bed(nap-not long sleep,say after dinner) and jump in the shower. Take the time to do the things you just don’t have time to do when the kids are banging on the bathroom door in the morning. Shave your legs, use a good moisturizing body soap, and wash and condition your hair. Dont forget your V part.This will save you a ton of time when you are on the go the next day.

Lay Out Your Clothes at Night
How many times have you got out of bed in the morning and put on whatever clothes were nearest to you? You never think about changing until much later in the day, and then you realize you had the same jeans on for three days in a row. When you are a busy mom these things happen. To combat this problem, consider laying out your clothes out the night before. This will make is easy for you to throw on your (clean) clothes and you are ready for anything.

Minimize Your Makeup
There are some times when you want to wear more makeup, but on the average day, you don’t need to do that. A little makeup is good, but forget about a full facial on busy days. Instead, go through your cosmetic bag and pick out a few essentials. Perhaps you could get away with just wearing a light powder, blush, mascara, and lip gloss. This will leave you looking fresh and ready for the day without all the fuss.Pull your kids stroller and smile ;)

Get a Simple Haircut
The next thing you might want to consider is a simple haircut. Who has time for all the curling and primping day after day? Unless you had to attend any events/occasion.Think about a good haircut that requires minimal care. A blunt cut is great and you will only need to blow dry your hair and you are ready to go. Ask your hairdresser for ideas and for a hairstyle that will work with your hair texture.

The most important thing is the way you carry yourself,self confidence and always smell good.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Should children learn more than one language in their young age? Can they cope with more than one language? If so, when is the good time to teach them the second language? What are the advantages or disadvantages to raise bilingual children?

I have all these questions in my mind early when I was expecting my baby Ryan. I was thinking what language I should focus on him and talk to him since young. I have seen many young parents from Chinese/Indian/ educated talk with their children in English and I was wondering this is a correct method of raising the kids especially we are multi-racial family.Speak Chinese?Iban?Siam?Malay or even Indian to Ryan??

I always understand English and Mandarin are important language and it becomes more important when kids grow up and enter into corporate world. Like many other parents, I also hope my Remy Junior good in English and Mandarin as well, not only good but excellent.So do you,right hot mommies? However, I have decided to speak Mandarin with my boy instead of English,Iban and Malay. Unfortunately my husband cant even speak in his Siamese language,but his mother does.


Besides, our friends in different nation are so keen in learning Mandarin,Iban even Siam.I should not have reason not to let my boy master our own language specialy our mother-tongue.

It gives me lots of information about raising children in multi languages, you should also read their articles at :


Multilingual Children Association.

-The Pros and Cons of Raising a Multilingual Child
-10 Myths You Will Be Told About Multilingual Children
-Language Systems and Why Your Family Needs It?
-10 Steps to Raising a Multilingual Child
-When is The Best Time to Start?
-How to Start Older Kids on a Foreign Language
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal



-FORWARDED EMAIL THAT I RECEIVED-

HOLA SUHAILA-I KNW U READING THIS ;P
''Actually I kesian dengan my friend named Suhaila.She is mother of two.When I looked at her now,memang kesian.Body kurus macam papan(Sorry to say,but she is real petit and small)Katanya,dia kurus kering macam tu sebab breastfeed both of her children(Ibu2 lain breastfeeding anak sampai 3tahun elok je mantap body diarang/berisi/gemuk),bukannya kurus macam sakit seperti my friend Suhaila.So its fine lah.But,dia makan banyak mengalahkan orang gemuk tapi tak jadi isi.Dia selalu cepat melenting even dalam bulan puasa.Also,dia tidak boleh menerima kritikan atau teguran,hakikatnya dia adalah punca segalanya.Pernah sekali I terbaca blog dia apabila diberitahu oleh seorang follower.Inilah 'pandangan' dia ,'story' dia.

-Pertama,Dia racist,memang dia mengaku dia racist ''Memang I racist.aku suka sekali kalau bangsa bukan melayu tidak duduk dalam Malaysia''WTF? Hanya kerana dia tersinggung dengan statement kawan bukan bumiputra dia ''I nak antar anak I ke sekolah private lepas tu pergi oversea and migrate sana terus''.Kenapa pulak nak tersinggung,bukankah bagus anak2 belajar disana daripada merempit di sini?Bukan pakai duit Suhaila pun kan?Tak hairanlah kaum bukan melayu kebanyakkannya berjaya dinegara orang dan menempa nama student malaysia study di luar negara.Tak banyak,sikit pun boleh memperkenalkan nama malaysia disana.Kemanakah tujuan 1Malaysia?Tau kah apa perasaan orang bukan melayu apabila terbaca blog sampah dia itu?Memang meroyan nak mampos la Suhaila ni.Memang nak kena dengan CSLek.


-Kedua,dalam blog dia,dia cakap ''I kurang suka kalo ade orang cakap anak dia umur satu bulan boleh pegang benda/advance''-seolah2 dia xsuka anak orang lain hebat dari anaknya*sigh*).


-Ketiga,dia melenting apabila kawan2 dia suka tegur dia kurus keding seperti tidak sihat.Ok itu mungkin hak dia,tapi kita kena sedar tak semua orang suka apa kita buat atau cakap.Senang cerita,terima lah kenyataan dan perbaiki diri dari teguran orang.


-Keempat,dia sentiasa berkata ''Anak I hebat/dahsyat/power/pandai itu pandai ini LEBIH DARI ANAK ORANG LAIN''BALIK2 MENTION LEBIH DARI ANAK ORANG LAIN.Tak salah kita nak puji anak sendiri..Tapi tak payah la nak tambah statement LEBIH DARI ANAK ORANG LAIN.Apakah perasaan ibu2 lain apabila membacanya?Lepas tu bila orang tegur,dia MELENTING pastu gelak haha.Serius memang macam orang giler siot.Boleh gelak lagi,apa yang kelakar pun taktau.Kalau nak ikut kepala angin sendiri,baik set blog ke private,takyah nak buat tayangan umum.Kita kesian kat dia je,coz orang yang baik dengan dia dalam blog pun sebenarnya teramatlah kurang selesa dengan Suhaila.Cuma I ni je yang berani tegur dia.Yelah..kawan lama zaman sekolah dulu kan..Tapi I dapat habuan lain pulak..Apa kaitan my past dengan her blog?Nampak sangat ketidakmatangan Suhaila disitu.Tak padan langsung dengan identiti bertudung dan badan cenonet,perangai mengalahkan kafir.Sarcastic old woman.Enough said.


Sebagai orang dewasa(she is way older than me-she might be menapause cz angin dia semacam spt orang muda mcm i),kita berfikiran terbuka bahawa teguran itu untuk memperbaiki diri.Jadi,tanda2 sedemikian adalah merupakan-Postpartum Blues/Meroyan.And now,shes deleted all of our arguments.Wohoo,dia jugak deleted all of her racist issue n nyampah tengok anak orang advanced punya issue.Mungkin dia malu dengan kebodohan sendiri atau baru insaf.Berani kerana benar kah itu?Selalunya orang meroyan ni tak tahan dengan tekanan,dia akan perbesarkan dan xreti nak cope the situation.Kawan2,mari berdoa supaya kawan I tu cepat sembuh sebelum dia jadi meroyan yang amat teruk....Amin.''

Akhirnya Suhaila sudah pun meminta maaf(hangat2 tai ayam) pada semua stelah dia takut bila I ajak confront.Nak bagi pelempang kat dia sekali,lagi bagus dari berperang mulut kan.

Moral of the story:Dia pernah bagitau yang suami dia tak bagi dia blogging pasal anak(mungkin suami dia tau perangai laser dia tu),tapi dia buat jugak-So,bagi I,mungkin itu balasannya apabila tidak mendengar pesanan suami.Pathetic wife''

Takpe lah,biar Tuhan balas apa yang mak meroyan ni kerana ke-laser-an,racist and jenis nyampah tengok anak orang advanced ni.Amin..Panas la badan,hati,otak dia sepanjang ramadhan dan raya ni nanti sebab kebanyakkan follower2 dia datang kat I and baca also bgtau sebenarnya diarang pun tak puas hati dengan psyco woman ni.Padan muka.Ingat orang komen ikhlas ke,baca sekali dah menyampah dgn isu racist,nyampah tgk anak org advance isu and isu sikit2 mention LEBIH dari anak org lain.Orang gelak je and kipas2 dia.Dia pun melayan.Hakikatnya follower dia datang kat I. ;p
Dia ada post pasal orang nyampah blog dia since 2008.Ha,bukan setakat kita yang nyampah,rupanya dari tahun 2008 lagi dia memang banyak musuh dlm selimut!Sape yang tak menyampah kalau dah sentuh isu racist,kurang suka anak orang advanced and asyik mention anak dia LEBIH DARI ANAK ORANG berulang2??
Ha,Suhaila,jangan kerana mulut,badan binasa ya?Your ugly face is the most WANTED now.(Kan I dah cakap.Be nice,Im harmless.Tapi bak kata dia,dia lah punca cerita ni berjela2.Sedar pun.
Here,I would like to share with any mothers having postpartum depression.

No need cash,just do it at home:

*Surround yourself with supportive family members and friends, and ask for their help in caring for the baby.
*Take care of yourself. Get as much rest as you can. Nap when the baby naps.
*Try not to spend much time alone.
*Spend some time alone with your husband or partner.
*Take a shower and get dressed every day.
*Get out of the house. Take a walk, see a friend, do something you enjoy. Get someone to take care of the baby if you can; if you can't, take the baby with you.
*Don't expect too much from yourself. Don't worry too much about the housework/any small matter. Ask friends and family for help.
*Talk to other mothers. You can learn from each other, and their experiences can be reassuring. Accept their opinions.
If the depression persists for longer than 2 weeks or is very deep, talk to your health care provider. Self-care alone is not recommended.

Get well soon Suhaila-Seronok membaca pandanganmu dalam storymu..Teruskan menghina makhluk Tuhan dalam blog u!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
According to Wendy Chapman,Indigo Children are the current generation being born today and most of those who are 8 years old or younger. They are different. They have very unique characteristics that set them apart from previous generations of children.There's a very good chance your child is an Indigo if he/she was born after 1992. About 85% or higher of children born in '92 or later, 90% born in '94 or after and 95% or more born now (some even say 99%) are Indigo Children!

These are the children who are often rebellious to authority, nonconformist, extremely emotionally and sometimes physically sensitive or fragile, highly talented or academically gifted and often metaphysically gifted as well, usually intuitive, very often labeled ADD, either very empathic and compassionate OR very cold and callous, and are wise beyond their years. Does this sound like yourself or your child?


I've heard reports that they started coming in the 80s, but that means coming in larger numbers. I believe there have been Indigos born in every year, but perhaps not in high enough percentages to notice their presence and see what makes them so unique. So can you be a 24 yr old Indigo or a 50 year old one? Yes!

Is your child an Indigo?
To find out, ask yourself these questions:

Did your child come into the world acting like royalty?
Does your child have a feeling of deserving to be here?
Does your child have an obvious sense of self?
Does your child have difficulty with discipline and authority?
Does your child refuse to do certain things they are told to do?
Is waiting in lines torture for your child?
Is your child frustrated by ritual-oriented systems that require little creativity?
Does your child see better ways of doing thing at home and at school?
Is your child a nonconformist?
Does your child refuse to respond to guilt trips?
Does your child get bored rather easily with assigned tasks?
Does your child display symptoms of Attention Deficit Disorder?
Is your child particularly creative?
Does your child display intuition?
Does your child have strong empathy for others?
Did your child develop abstract thinking very early?
Is your child very intelligent?
Is your child very talented (may be identified as gifted)?
Does your child seem be a daydreamer?
Does your child have very old, deep, wise looking eyes?
Does your child have spiritual intelligence?

If you have more than 10 yes answers, he or she probably is an Indigo. If more than 15, almost definitely.
-However,pengesahan dari specialist adalah jawapan yang tepat.Do not overly obsessed with Indigo signs on your child.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
For more info about Little Makmum,please refer to Mama Miya at http://www.boobiesmommies101.blogspot.com as I am not really expert in this entry.Thank you.

Note:Ryan poked his daddy's butt and berdiri kat kaki daddy bila daddy berdiri and gelak bila daddy dia cium kain sejadah..Funny scence but Im touched.


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My mommy(Ibanese caucasian) and my mama-in-law(Siamese) was extremely freckley and now they still has some yet they have faded.My husband Remy had a lot on his nose,forehead and cheeks too.Every where,enough said.And yes,they are very fair.So do I,but I dont have any freckles.I might be inherit more to my dad(Chinese).


And Ryan also had few small pale brown freckles spot on his cheek,right eye and alot at his back .Ryan developed a freckles at 2 months old.Its cute.Persis mat saleh celup,you!With big frames,brownish almond eyes,sharpy bone nose,straight hair,pinkish fair skin,long eyelash,thick eyebrow and the freckles.His skin is very sensetive and thin layered skin type.So,Sebamed product only can befriend with his skin.Yeah,it might be too much multi-racial in Ryan's blood..

Those who had freckles is because of the melanin contains in their skin.The more melanin you have,the darker your skin colour.But Albinos have no melanin at all in their skin!They are most common on White people,pure Asian are very rare unless you got the caucasian/white blood.

Doctor determined yes,it was freckles.He said,babies will outgrow with it and they seem to fade during adulthood but it wont disappear.The tendecy to have freakles seems to be inherited.
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On closer inspection,there it was,his 6th little teeth on upper left lateral incisor just broke out.Means,his 5th and 6th teeth are cutting together at the same time.Before long,Ryan would have all SIX front teeth at 9months ready to give anyone who dares to put their fingers into his mouth a painful nip.Thanks God as usual NO fever,NO cranky.
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His 5th little teeth on the right upper lateral incisor has emerged and as sharp as the current four.And seems like on his left lateral gums already paled as well.No wonder that he has been sinking his teeth into everything that we give him as well as those that we don't recently, including our fingers, our arms, our legs and painful to say, he even managed to sink his four razor sharp teeths onto my arms when I was not watching!As usual Alhamdulilah,NO fever,NO cranky.
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I had alot of sexy lingerie from Victoria Secrets,La Senza,XiXiLi and International Eblin .Im a lingerie lover!Satu almari besar untuk lingerie saja ok..You named it.From kinky,fetish,push-up,lacey,corsett,peek-a-boo to decent style.Any kind of colours,any materials.


As for Ryan,Old Navy 2 piece Cassette,GAP jumper sleepwear and Carter jumper sleepwear are suits him best(UK Size).Comfy wear,100% cotton and cute.Here are some from his collection.So far,Ryan has 60 sets of pyjamas.






















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KINDLY REMINDER TO ALL OF MY FOLLOWER,SILENT READER OR WHOEVER PEEP:
PLEASE DO NOT EVER COPY-PASTE ANY IDEA OF MY ARTICLE OR MY SON'S PHOTO ON YOUR BLOG WITHOUT HIS NAME WRITTEN.IF URE POSTING ANY BACKDATED ENTRY OF MINE ON YOUR LATEST POST(FROM THE DATE AFTER MY ARTICLES BEEN POSTED),PLS KEEP MY LINK CREDITED.I BET YOU HAD READ MY POSTS ONCE URE BECOME MY FOLLOWER.IM GUARANTEED SMART PARENTS WONT SIMPLY ADDING PEOPLE WITHOUT KNOWING THE CONTENT OF THIS BLOG AT THE FIRST PLACE ,UNLESS URE MY SILENT READER FOR SO LONG.YES,SHARING IS CARING,BUT NO COPYCAT ISSUE IN ANY MANNERS WITHOUT MY PERMISSION PLS.

NOTE:I respect 3 of my follower punya entry, http:www.rifqyhady.blogspot.com under ''cheesestick?Yummy''. Also, http:www.bondachem.blogspot.com under ''Sehari bersama Ryan Raffael Bin Remy Rizal ''And http:www.avatania.blogspot.com under ''Go with your own flow''.Pls be a smart blogger like them.
TQ
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

When I was pregnant to Ryan,one of the fruits that I loved is dates(kurma) .By the 3rd trimester(6-9months of pregnancy).Instead of apple,carrot,pear and grapes,two boxes of dates a month will be completed by myself tho.Its also a must snack during my confinement and breastfeeding.And now,Ryan seems like loving the taste of dates as well.Good for our son.Instead of 2 servings of pasta/porridge(salmon,vege and ect) as a daily maincourse, 2 servings of cheese,1 serving of yogurt,30 ounces of milk and 4 servings of dates a day is more than enough to hit children daily needed intake.


During Ramadhan,Muslims generally break their fast by eating dates. Prophet Muhammad is reported to have said: "if anyone of you is fasting, let him break his fast with dates. In case he does not have them, then with water. Verily water is a purifier."


I did a small research about it since I started to introduce my son the taste of dates fruit recently.Experiments have shown that dates contain some stimulants that strengthen the muscles of the uterus in the last months of pregnancy. This helps the dilation of the uterus at the time of delivery on one hand and reduces the bleeding after delivery on the other. Dieticians consider dates as the best food for women in confinement and those who are breastfeeding. This is because dates contain elements that assist in alleviating depression in mothers and enriching the breast-milk with all the elements needed to make the child healthy and resistant to disease.


Modern dietary institute now recommend dates to be given to children suffering from a nervous nature or hyperactivity.Dates are rich in several vitamins and minerals. When the level of trace elements falls in the body, the health of the blood vessels is affected leading to an increased heart-rate and a consequent inability to perform its function with normal efficiency. As dates are also rich in calcium, they help strengthen the bones. When the calcium content in the body decreases, children are affected with rickets and the bones of adults become brittle and weak.
Happy Ramadhan Al-Mubarak to all.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal
Look at our 9 Months old precious Ryan,lagak macam little toddler!Hehehe.







Ref:http://ryanraffael.blogspot.com/search/label/Baby%20Signing

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(Look at my baby bam bam sleeping with his bantal bushuk)
Laugh out loud.I got a little young trooper.Ryan is always trumping in his sleep.


He once farted so loud then he woke himself up looked around all confused and then went back to sleep.Haha.Sometimes,when he is playing/running around,suddenly he 'trrooop',he will stop and smile at me then laugh and find it funny when he farts out loud.
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Recently when he goes for a poo, he hides behind the curtain!
Ryan is still on diapers.By the ways,this is the 9th times I caught him doing that habit.Its funny actually.When I picked him up,and YES..He just finished his business.I think its a sign that he knows when he has to go, and can recognize the feeling.Hahaha.Its seems like he is aware of his body functions and wants 'privacy'.
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We brought Ryan to see paediatrician for the BP test yesterday.No negative reason,but just a medical check up done.Blood,lungs,ear,eyes,mouth,heart beat,stomach,body temperature,weight and height checked.Alhamdullilah,semua results ok.Well,there are blood pressure monitors that are designed for child. Babies need intensive care and monitoring for their development especially those with abnormalities or monthly medical checkups.


Not only adults are using blood pressure monitor but also infants who need blood pressure monitoring. In monitoring child blood pressure, paed will make sure the cuff is fully inflated or tight enough to stop the flow of blood in the artery. This paediatric device is developed to give emphasis on calming the young patient along with various blood pressure monitors that give cuff sizes for infant and child. Premature infants are more prone to hypertension compared to infants.



Although there is no rules with regards to the blood pressure monitoring of premature infants, it is important to high-check the blood pressure either by palpation or doppler in the paediatrician's clinic at least 2 times every year.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

Look at his rossy blushy cheek,so adorable!

OMG,teeth grinding sounds worse than it is!It is suddenly sounds like a pint-size sawmill!Ryan make me sick!There no cure,unless he is sleeping ;p


He has recently started grinding his teeth throughout the day... I think it's just because his another 2 upper central incisors have come in and he was just getting use to his new teeth(now 4teeth at 9months)also it's probably just a weird sensation that he does for fun. He likes the sound but I totally sensetive with this kind of sound!(plate/straw/pan and ect)


He doesn't so it for more than a few seconds at a time and sometimes he does it when he's smiling so it's probably just the feel of things coming together where there didn't used to be anything.. It's hard to listen to but I try not to make a big deal out of it sometimes,I just ran out of his sight tho.... One more "reinforcement" of a behavior I don't want continued! The noise is driving me insane it goes through me and I really want him to stop I even tried shouting at him(not that mean as you think la) when he did it and he just laughed I do really hope he grows out of it soon as I will go mental if it carries on much longer!
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal

OUR GIFTED SON HIT HIS MILESTONES EVERY MONTH!
-Tummy unaided at 2 months
-Rolling back to front unaided at 3 months
-Sitting unaided at 4 months
-Crawling F1 at 5 months
-Climbing unaided at 6 months
-Cruising unaided at 7 months
-First step at 8 months
HOW TIME FLIES!!!
For the past 7days, my baby Ryan has finally found the confidence to walk!His first step moment is at 8months and now at 9months he could stand and walk 5,6 steps!He walks and hold and off his hands.

And he loves to walk while holding hands so that he could run happily around gymboree field!Hehehe,though when he wants to run, he will hold on to a chair and push it to support himself running and merry-go-round on our big oval coffee table!No longer does he want to remain in his playmat now after experiencing the sweet feeling of little walking round the house.


He is also climbing on everything specialy his rocking chair since he was 7 Months(Tengok-tengok dah on the top ) and anything and busy open the drawers. He is really a handful now and I can no longer do anything whenever he is not asleep for I need to watch over him like a hawk.Baby Ryan goes walking and walking and turning corners! When he feels insecure,he will holding onto the table or wall.Fun to watch.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal


Look at his cheeky smile!Heheh.Susah giler nak capture photo gigi dia!


And finally!His 3rd tooth upper right central insicor tooth has showed up yesterday ,and today his 4th upper left central insicor has finally emerged.Smaller than 3rd tooth,obviously.As usual NO cranky,NO fever.
I noticed that yesterday his 4th tooth is coming out as well. No wonder, his bite has more sting now. Before long, he would have all 4 front teeth ready to give anyone who dares to put their fingers into his mouth a painful nip.
Mommy Stephanie Liah And Daddy Remy Rizal